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Love and Bliss to you! Jujumama!
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Good Day Everyone, I just thought I’d Share – LOL!
In Tantra we learn that even having an orgasm is an art…
Yes, for both men and women cultivating our ability to become multi-orgasmic is part of the fun of making love tantrically. In Tantra, having an orgasm is more than just a physical release of energy from the genitals. It is a full-bodied state of ecstatic energy that runs throughout your entire body.
With proper training you can bring yourself into ecstatic states of bliss for unlimited amounts of time. In Tantra there are different types of orgasmic states. There are valley orgasms, peak orgasms, full-bodied energetic orgasms, extended and expanded orgasms.
OK – so yesterday’s post got NO comments! The 142 people, maybe women, who read it were as silent as mice. LOL! All the ladies were like, ump, that is not me! I do not posses any, not one, of the ten traits. Well, maybe there were a few honest ones who sent personal emails – Thank you DIVAS! But I got far more personal mail that denoted the need for the man’s list!
OK
Why is it that as soon as I talk about what women need to shift in relationships, the women say “Well, what does the man need to do?” It seems we have a feeling of powerlessness. Feminine Energy is very powerful! Women are the center of the Home and the center of the Creative Universe! If we make changes – MEN make changes. You did see this story about the Kenyan women who went on a sex fast to end war, correct? And by no means do I suggest a sex fast, but I am saying!
Anyway, because I love ALL DIVAS, I decided to create the man’s list today.
Men – if you are having any one of the symptoms below – CALL JUJUMAMA! We can work it out so that you can have the respect you so desire!
10 clues that men need a little loving support in the relationship department:
1. You have often found yourself calling women ‘golddiggers’ and wish to have an independent woman who will not need you to secure her or take care of her financial needs.
2. You have often desired your mate to be the sexual aggressor. Your libido is not so steady and you need her to show you that she wants you a little bit more.
Here are 10 ways you can tell if you need to Manifest a little more Sexy in your life!
Do you or someone you know – your best friend *wink* – have any ONE of these concerns?
If you, oops, I mean she has even ONE ~ It’s time for some JujuPower in your life!
This one is for the ladies… Men – yours is coming soon!
Do you share even ONE of the following:
1. Every time you get into a relationship, the same old bad habits surface in you and the man you are dealing with. You are finding yourself living a life of repeating patterns.
2. You find that you are angry at men in general. How do you know? You disrespect men with words, you push men away from you, you treat men badly, you try to become a player, you feel men have nothing to offer you. You are generally a very dominant woman due to past pain and anger. Bless your heart!
So last night I was in the need for a little Tantric Bliss…
I work around the clock as CEO, CFO, Marketing Director, Blogger, Mother, Wet Nurse, Wife, Energy Healer, Tantrica, Manager of 5 Virtual Assistants, Book Distributor, Twitter Queen, Lover, Event Coordinator, Motivational Speaker, Web Developer, Friend, Counselor, PR Director, Publicist, Brand Manager, Laundry Maid, and of course Goddess/DIVA.
So I was like REALLY in need last night. Do ya’ll feel me? LOL!
I have been for the past few days in need of a REAL session. I desire to be more than loved, I desire to be worshiped!
Now, before you call me blasphemous, hear me out. Human beings – all of us, I dare say – need to be worshiped from time to time.
This entails another human being (or two – whatever ;~) adoring and adorning your body, mind and soul, sending healing vibrations into your soul, speaking strings of kind words into your heart, acknowledging you, sensually, and in every way! Often we think we need to have a main lover or serious partner to do this. But that is old school, old paradigm thought!
LOVE HEALS! How often do you get it in? LOL! Here is how it works…
WOW – I will think twice before posting a ‘coming soon’ on an upcoming post. My message about the popular drug Viagra has had an amazing impact!
(BTW, Is it legal to use the name of this drug here? – Let me know ya’ll – help me out)…
I fielded more than a few phone calls about when this article would be posted. I even received subliminal messages from you – “when is the article going to come out, you know, the one about Erectile Illiteracy?” LOL! This must be a VERY hot topic!
OK – you know me by now – I always share from the heart and true stories at that! You can bet your life all you are about to read is TRUE!
I an a magical JujuMama! I intuit metaphysical Truths and test Quantum Awareness on a regular basis. I am a relationships scientist! You know that from reading my posts. I am not a safe, meek, risk-free type. I know that I can handle whatever life tosses my way. When faced with a challenge, I dream, explore, develop and SUCCEED – right on time and every single time! So getting with this male ‘issue’ is not different. I had to know what was going on with my man…
I am currently doing a large spread on The Erotic Life of Women prior to Patriarchal Rule…
Here is a prelude to a Kiss my lovelies… I found this article online and it is spot on!
The ancient art of ambrosia (female ejaculation) is a resurging mystery that intrigues more and more modern-day people. Esoteric traditions (Tantric and Taoist) and western science have many perspectives on this form of female sexual expression. Both perspectives have value in shedding light on this at once controversial and mysterious topic. To more fully understand female ejaculation, an exploration into the nature of female sexual essence is necessary.
YIN is symbolized by the ocean or water, and a woman’s essence is a living example of this: deep, mysterious, fluid. The power of the Feminine/YIN sexual energy can be frightening; from having the ability to host another life within her to accessing what seems like limitless bliss. In the Taoist traditions YIN is considered inexhaustible, cool, earthy, receptive and fertile.
Today, most women have lost contact with their deeper YIN essence having been encouraged to primarily cultivate the YANG, or more surface aspects of themselves. This is largely due to the lack of broader sex education, early social conditioning, and religious dogma. As advanced as our society is, our understanding of sexual energy and its management is limited to the education received from Planned Parenthood programs in junior high as well as the messages delivered from media (movies, TV and internet).
This sexual education covers basic anatomy and some preconceived ideas about what sexual performance should look like. Unfortunately this, combined with ‘good girl/bad girl’ upbringing and possible religious dogma around self-pleasuring has mislead most women to feel that their bodies are inadequate and that their YIN or softness has no real value or appeal. It is a common trend to desire a washboard stomach, to not be ‘so sensitive’ or ‘emotional’, to strive in the aggressive world by being aggressive, rather than loving.
‘I’GASM!!! I am loving this – I cannot reprint the entire story – click the link below to read the rest and thank the author!
OK – I have been holding out on you guys. I spoke with my friend from Las Vegas today only to get really hot while telling her this story. Then I said to myself, why haven’t I told my loyal readers? Well, maybe because I wanted to keep this juicy morsel to myself, but I held it for a week, and now I have to share, bursting at the seams.
Recently I have been going to a very posh Buckhead location to relax on the weekend. Ok, I am lying. I do not go to relax. I go to network with Atlanta’s beautiful people. Yes. Birds of a feather…
So I was there one night, I was supposed to meet another potential photographer. Met him on Twitter – a great place to meet amazing human beings. You recall my first outcome with having photos taken, right? Who could forget. Well, I am good friends with that first photographer now, he is such a reflection of me. I am learning so much working with him on personal matters and business. But tonight I was to meet another potential photographer. I went through the crowd several times but I could not find him…
You need to watch this before reading any of my posts! LOL! Raise your vibration – Thrive Bliss babies. I love you so much! Thank you for reading Jujumama | Manifest Sexy!
I love firsts. Recently at my Tantra Event in Atlanta many people were able to see their first LIVE Tantra Demonstration. Most had never seen a woman brought to full orgasm without being touched at all or through a special (non-vaginal) massage. My husband demonstrated the technique really well – so well that I too was having inner bliss as I watched – all of the women were!
What happened was we chose three audience members randomly and had each of them get into bed on the stage to be worked on by hubby. He uses a technique called NitVana but he has added some special skills to the mix as well. We call our Event Organic Bliss - soon coming to a city near you!
But firsts are really cool! I recall the first time I fell in love outside of my marriage. It happened last year this time. My husband had been – for two full years – trying to open me to these new concepts that I had immediately rejected. What? Another woman? And more, me with any man I choose – NO WAY! I am not down with that. My sister, my mother, my dad, his parents, hell, everyone in my whole life would have a fit if we were to openly have this form of relationship. My name is not Jada. And you do not have Will Smith money so forget about it!
Ok Ok, I get it. People are still squeamish about sex! How could I not have know? I guess I am living in my own Utopian Orgasmic Universe.
The average American is simply embarrassed about the topic and behaves more like a six-year-old than an adult when the subject is mentioned, especially when discussing sex as a Spiritual Modality. We must still cling to the Puritanical belief that sex is a secret thing for “mature adults” joined in holy matrimony.
Those lovers of life who make merriment of Love are rambunctious, sex-crazed, sinners, right? And please do NOT mention those hippies who practice the Art of Love on “Sacred” terms – aspiring to reach God Consciousness through the devilish, animistic act of sex. Shame on them!
I get it now. Why didn’t you guys tell me before? My freedom about the Sacred/Spiritual act of Raw Love makes me the enemy I guess? It’s sort of like this guy. Pastor Roland Belew got into BIG TROUBLE in Alabama a few weeks ago as fallout occurred surrounding his highway billboards reading Great Sex: God’s Way.
Now someone please tell me, what is wrong with his tag line that the people of Good Hope, Alabama contacted the mayor, the city counsel and even the police force to combat the message?Some complained that their children and teens may see the billboard and ask questions.
Duuurrrhhh, ok? And we do not want our kids to ask questions about sex? I guess I am a terrible parent because not only do our kids ask questions, but we ANSWER THEM! Oh no! And we have had a real, live, Tantra master educate our kids fully on the spiritual nature of the act. And for shame, we have actually discussed the fact that Daddy and Mommy have sex all of the time and that it is a fun meditative exercise for men and women who share love.
Maybe you guys should stone me in the streets like they are doing Pastor Belew down in Bama. Check the story here.
This is an interesting state of affairs. But things get worse…or better… depending on your perspective – for me? Better.
So today I get this survey on facebook. A friend sent it to me. He wants to test my sexual profile or something. Great! I am going to tell you how this survey may summarize the reason 78% of women in this country (YES 78%) are non-orgasmic during intercourse with a man.
Stay open as you read. I Don’t mean to be harsh. This is a polemic…
TEST YOUR SEXUAL PROFILE QUIZ – A Facebook Application
Question One:
1. Are you comfortable with your body?
Possible Answers:
A. I love every part of my body. B. I hate my body. C. I am comfortable with my body D. I would change a few things.
OK – what does sex have to do with being comfortable with one’s body? I know, I know, you are going to tell me that body image has everything to do with good sex, psychologist said so, right? However, please examine this closely because herein lies the issue. Why would a woman not be comfortable with her body? I will tell you why. Here in this country, we have all seen it, women are attempting to measure up to a cookie cutter body image standard, which is ardently deft. Basically, women have purchased the notion that if we don’t look like a 14 year old boy, we are somehow sub-standard. We can shift this!
This has not always been the case. (This article is not simply about women body issues. It’s about male and female relations)
Hi People! Watch this brief Introduction to the post before reading… Thanks!
So tonight I said NO – AGAIN! Oh don’t trip people, I did not say NO to my husband. I am so happy that after all these years I rarely if ever say NO to him. I love to receive the Bliss filled packages he delivers more than ‘quite often’ (you have to check the Viagra Article to know the secret to that! LOL!) But this night, there is simply nothing to say NO to. He was asleep by 9:00 PM just as I put the three kiddies to bed e bye. So to what or to whom did I say NO? Well, many things and many people. This is quite a quandary.
To be plain, I said NO to a friend who called me and said “Kenya, girl, what are you doing? Come downtown and hang out with us at the W!”. It’s like ten o’clock, the W is in Midtown, I live up North, 35 miles from Atlanta? NO I thought. ”I have to think about that, let me call you back.” And when I called her back, I closed the deal. NO – sorry – I can’t – not tonight! My Inner Hesitation about doing ANYTHING outside my normal routine is what I take issue with! Why can’t I say YES YES YES to life? Well, I can and I will! The time is now!
I think too damned much with the wrong parts of my brain. Maybe you share this issue? I have been in the habit of giving myself thousands of excuses as to why I should not eat this, why I should not say this, why I should not make love with him, why I should contain myself, why life is not safe and why I must and should always say NO. NO NO NO NO NO!!!!! And so this night was no different – NO to my friends at the W hotel.
Wooooooow! As you know the Equinox happened Friday evening, March 20. Many cultures take this time to give something up or fast such as in Lint and Ramadan. I too decided to give something up. I am giving up the word NO as a first response. Period. So my ritual was simple. I was told by Source to go out ALONE into the world on a Friday Night and say YES to life. YES, say YES to life. See that I can trust the Universe to protect me. A spiritual practice…
Here is an image of me as I prepared for that evening. I purchased a special dress for this occasion. Spirit told me to wear white, so I bought a sassy white sweater dress from Banana Republic. I did not think a Lapa would quite do the trick. LOL! It is totally possible to do a private fasting ritual in a public place and look hot while doing it! OK? Yes We Can.
My husband literally dropped me off downtown at 10:00 PM. I was alone. He took me to the Four Seasons Hotel where I would start my evening at the Celebrity Chocolate Affair. This was really fun! My work? My ritual? My Mantra? YES YES YES. I did this ritual from 10:00 Friday – 5:00 AM Saturday Morning. The results? Amazing!
The first objective I wanted to achieve in doing this is to prove to myself that I trust my very favorite Universal Law: We Only Attract Who and What We Are – Each person we attract is there for a purpose – to evolve us.
You see, I had been having a problem trusting the people who walk into my life when I know full and darned well that if I trust this basic Universal premise, then I have nothing at all to worry about in terms of who I meet. I am meeting myself every time. I am meeting like vibration.
Maybe you too struggle with trust issues that stem from a lack of faith in Universal Order and then a lack of trust for even yourself (been there) both of which lead to lack of trust in others.
So to go out into the world, ALONE, on a Friday Night with no car, no plans, no companions and looking like dis was quite a ritual. I would simply BE in places, SEE what comes, WATCH who comes and OBSERVE my own ability to say YES to it all. Why not? Why not say yes to all the Me’s I meet? Why not? Why not? (my nervous energy has me stuttering)
I knew I would be challenged, but I am committed to being a YES girl. YES to life at last! Yes We Can.
Check out my wild and sexy and hilarious Equinox adventure!
Greetings. My husband and I took the time to sit and do these videos the other day. Two more coming soon. Here we discuss the purpose of our open relationship. This is a four part series, look for parts three and four coming soon. I can’t stay up ALL night editing! LOL! Don’e expect HOllywood people, we did them ourselves. But one day, we will roll out an entire series done professionally for the purpose of educating anyone interested in building a foundation strong enough to handle this form of relating. It is definitely not for everyone, but what is? If you like it, enjoy! Leave your comments! It has taken years of work, do not think it was easy. Enjoy – we are really silly.
Part two is a hodge podge of more information. This is off the cuff and unscripted. I wish I owned a teleprompter, then this might be a bit cleaner! LOL! My husband is an absolute nut! I am so in love with this King. Bliss and Enjoy!
For more of my stories about our particular brand of Open Relating, click the tab above “Open Relationship”. Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy!
Did you walk through the doorway of the Spring Season with a little Pep in your step? Great! So, we had a really fun time the other night on our Love and Law of Attraction Call – Join The National Meet-Up Group Here. We played a series of Law of Attraction Games in celebration of the Spring Equinox! You have to hear the entire call – things got really wild!!
The girls got Cool and Moist speaking life into their new realities! We discussed the fact that as women we want to be free in 2009! Free of what? Free of outmoded, antiquated, and frankly ridiculous notions of Puritanical ideas around sensuality!
Now is the time! We are not going to settle for the Okey Doke any longer! Some of the ladies spoke on love, others spoke on sensual confidence. We all played the game to shift our energy for the Spring Equinox Season!
The Organic Bliss Event this weekend in Atlanta was HOT! Thank you to all attendees! And especially thank you to Lisa C! Your post about this event to your blog is definitely amazing! I want to share that post here:
We finally went to our first Tantric Sex event, it was by far the best non-touch sexual experience I’ve ever had!
Do you remember just a little while ago I met a beautiful woman, blogger and author by the name of Kenya K. Stevens – aka JuJuMaMa? Wonderful! Well last night she, Rakhem Seku (her husband) and a few others hosted Organic Bliss Tantra at Your Day Spa located in Roswell, Georgia. Hubby and I enjoyed ourselves so much that we are convinced we will be hosting our very own Tantric Sex event in the very near future…
So yes, this post is for new Jujumama readers. I have to catch you up! When I first started this blog I was in a regular, monogamous relationship. I don’t mean to make it sound drab. It was fabulous! Monogamy is a workable plan. I wanted it for so long in my teens and when I turned 21, I got it! I married my King! That was almost 14 years ago.
Our relationship was not ordinary. We are both upwardly mobile, Howard University Grads, and trained Shamans in the metaphysical Traditions. Having been trained by elders who practice Polygamy, that is: one poly man and many mono wives, we are familiar with alternative lifestyles; have seen them up close and personal. But we decided not to go that route.
Our decision lasted for 12 strong years until one day, my husband fell in love! I did not know it at the time, but when he fell in love outside our marriage, my ascent to personal liberation began.
You could not have told me that his falling in love would liberate me back then. I would have knocked you out! Mama said knock you out – huuuhh! This was a perilous uphill battle for me.
But this is my Menage a Montage. In this post I summarize my journey into Bliss as best I can… Maybe it will help you in your relationships!
I will tell you with video (coming soon) and words all about how my husband and I got to this point of openness in our marriage. Freedom was at first strange and terrifying – Freedom, finally, feels unimaginable good. I cannot believe I am writing these words… the journey has been life altering.
It only took three years for my husband to convince me release the pain of the past, the brainwashing of modern times, and open to flow and a new Paradigm. How did he do it? How did we do it? Well, it is a rather interesting tale…
I LOVE this new Jamie Foxx song! How about you? My own interpretation of the meaning of the song might interest you. I think the song is profound. He is saying BLAME it on the alcohol – blame your authentic feelings, your desire to choose BLISS on a substance. The real deal is that we do not actually need the substance to express feminine desire. (Not that there is anything innately wrong with partaking in spirits. There is metaphysical purpose in that too! LOL!)
Basically Jamie has noted a key element in our society at this time. Women are fronting on the sex tip! Not all women, but many women carry real guilt about their sexual desires. Thus, they ‘get loose’ when they drink alcohol, the alcohol makes us free of the incessant need to judge ourselves about our natural, yet extremely suppressed, sexual energy.
So we talk alot about feminine energy here at Jujumama | Manifest Sexy. And why not? There is so much power in a woman’s yielding, sensual, receptive and sweet energy! Why not use it a little bit more, and hold back on the control bit? Can we open a school for that? It is not always so simple, right?
Well take a taste of sweet HONEY right now! Read the YES HONEY POST and listen to this cool recording of our YES HONEY CALL. You have to hear the thing straight through, so download now and wait until you have 45 juicy minutes to listen.
This call is HOT! We talked about how to apply HONEY when in the past we have used Vinegar. We want HARMONY in our relationships and so we now choose the sweet HONEY that flows naturally! DIVAS – try this on for size. MEN – share this with your loved one. And do Enjoy the flowing sweetness!
I am writing on behalf of all women (I hope). This letter is especially oriented for men in relationships with women, long term relationships, marriages and short term relationships for that matter! I want to talk about your desire to have more. We all want more. More love, more freedom, more fun! We honor you. We want that too. Everyone wants to feel free and happy, right?
Let me explain a few things to you that will surely get that DIVA you are working with on the right page about the relationship. She needs your love and I know you need her respect and both of you can have BOTH! Easy as pie!
The trick is simple. In this letter, I offer four ways for you to take your relationship to the next level.
I guess I’m talking to men today because of all the emails I get from men who say:
“Kenya K, I want my wife or lover to open up in the ways you have to your husband – but she won’t let me do anything like that. She would kill me if she knew I were writing you!”
I guess these men are talking about the open relationship piece. But there are a few things that must be in tact in a primary relationship before women will even consider doing anything outside the norm. Women are VERY conservative.
1. You have often found yourself calling women ‘golddiggers’ and wish to have an independent woman who will not need you to secure her or take care of her financial needs.
So last night I was in the need for a little Tantric Bliss… 
WOW – I will think twice before posting a ‘coming soon’ on an upcoming post. My message about the popular drug Viagra has had an amazing impact!
OK – I have been holding out on you guys. I spoke with my friend from Las Vegas today only to get really hot while telling her this story. Then I said to myself, why haven’t I told my loyal readers? Well, maybe because I wanted to keep this juicy morsel to myself, but I held it for a week, and now I have to share, bursting at the seams.
I love firsts. Recently at my Tantra Event in Atlanta many people were able to see their first LIVE Tantra Demonstration. Most had never seen a woman brought to full orgasm without being touched at all or through a special (non-vaginal) massage. My husband demonstrated the technique really well – so well that I too was having inner bliss as I watched – all of the women were!
Ok Ok, I get it. People are still squeamish about sex! How could I not have know? I guess I am living in my own Utopian Orgasmic Universe.
So today I get this survey on facebook. A friend sent it to me. He wants to test my sexual profile or something. Great! I am going to tell you how this survey may summarize the reason 78% of women in this country (YES 78%) are non-orgasmic during intercourse with a man.
So yes, this post is for new Jujumama readers. I have to catch you up! When I first started this blog I was in a regular, monogamous relationship. I don’t mean to make it sound drab. It was fabulous! Monogamy is a workable plan. I wanted it for so long in my teens and when I turned 21, I got it! I married my King! That was almost 14 years ago.
So we talk alot about feminine energy here at 
Dear Wonderful Men,