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Archive for December, 2008
I LOVE Facebook! Yesterday I posted “I Want TO Own Him” on my Facebook page. I received a massive response to my writing. Four rather stimulating comments jumped out at me. Here are my thoughts on each boldly eloquent comment! I am in love with the young man who posted these! Amazing!
Read the post “I Want To Own Him” first to make sense of this post…These comments are in response to the idea that maybe human beings are not monogamous, but have been poured into an unnatural relationship mold which causes illness and stagnation. If you enjoyed the article about my wanting to Own my husband, you’ll love the comments below.
It’s a sad state of affairs people. With the infidelity rate at 60% in the United States – yes this is higher than the divorce rate – our culture is experiencing the worst relationship scenario in a long time. Women and men are simply not seeing eye to eye on the issue of fidelity. It is not as simple as we’d all like to conclude: Men just don’t want to be faithful. It is much deeper than this. I am finding quite often that men and women simply desire more than their partner can provide, sexually, mentally and spiritually. I am sure there is a bright side. There is always a bright side, right?
The issue is ownership. Should marriage equate to total ownership of another human being, his mind, body and spirit I mean? When I married at age 21 of course I believed that it did. I wanted to own my husband. I wanted to be his only source for emotional connection on an intimate level, as well, I wanted to own his body just as I suspected he wanted to own mine. I couldn’t see a socially acceptable way around this…but now, maybe like you, I find myself in a severe quandary.
What should you do when your lover won’t behave well?
How do we reconcile the fact that a partner is behaving badly – I mean when your friends jump down your back!?
You Deserve Better GIRL…
Do we break up with a beloved who seems to have ‘problems’?
Do we stay and work out the issues and take the heat from friends and family?
Can your lover’s bad habits be reconciled in some way?
The answers to these questions depend on how you view the Universe. Are you a Victim in life or Co-Creator of your relationship? There is only one way to make a bad relationship good, it requires penetrating insight into Universal Laws. The easy out – or running away – will never do the trick. You’ll just run right to another situation that will challenge you again to work out your own issues.
Here’s a clue – every action has an equal and opposite reaction. For every effect, there is a cause. This is the most basic Universal Law. Use it when in a bind with your honey:
For all it’s worth, sex is a great way to make your dreams come true. Sure, it may be a dream come true to simply engage in the magical act with your beloved. However, to harness the energy of this most transcendental experience to create just about anything you want in life is an entirely different story!
Have you ever done it? Have you utilized the brilliant white light of sexual bliss to focus into your primary objectives? Let me explain what I mean…
