Archive for January 7th, 2009

Wow – What an amazing me I saw in the mirror today! I was out to lunch with a guy and a gal whom I love – actually new friends and potential clients. We went to the Cheese Cake Factory – my favorite place! Odd – I didn’t have dessert…
Late in the conversation we shifted to the topic of my marriage and the fact that my husband wants us to explore polyamory and compersion, two beautiful and evolved concepts that I am both fearful and in awe of.
The brother (well, he’s a white dude, by every man is my brother) began asking me why my husband wanted to explore this and how I felt about it. He assured his lover that he would NEVER do anything like this. He mentioned that fact that maybe I was being bamboozled – well, he didn’t use that term. But he said maybe my husband is a “master manipulator”…hhmmmmm
It stabbed me in the stomach to hear ME say this – sure the ME who was speaking to ME through HIM. I thought about this comment in two ways to find the deep and profound insight…the goodies!
