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Archive for February, 2009
Today I will tell you something true. Women will always want more. We want MORE. We will always, always, always want MORE… This is a good thing. Do you know why that is? It is because we are Earth and Water – we can always sprout more when seeded properly. We can absolutely have more – all of us! We are creators and so we seek expansion.
But how do we get the more we seek? There are an infinite number of ways – many possibilities – here is one…
RAISE YOUR VIBRATION - but how?
Imagine that you are listening to 99.5 on the radio dial but now you want more jazz and less hip-hop. How do you get what you want? Seems simple, right, you simply change the radio dial up a few notches until you reach 107.5 smooth jazz. Great.
Love is this way as well. Let us say that you are currently in a relationship that simply is not meeting your needs. You do not feel happy, in fact your mad as hell most of the time. Constant squabbles interrupt your flow of bliss. Why not change the channel – get more of what you want? Create DIVA!
Welcome to the Fab Five Lacing Experiment. As all of you know, I am Kenya Kay – JujuMama – Relationship Guru – Advocate for the Re|Feminine|Nation of Women – And Magical DIVA! My powers include working with woman to heal, fix, mend, or save any relationship.
I am currently looking for five fabulous women to test out my Lacing Process combined with Relationship Rescue which is a new process I have been working on for a few years.
If you are in a relationship that is flailing, failing, or being hampered by known or unknown ‘issues’, you are the perfect candidate for this experiment. I can only take FIVE women. This service will be delivered to you 100% free of charge.
I will work with you personally to heal your life from the inside out such that you attract or receive exactly what you desire in love…
Here is my hypothesis: I believe that by working with ONLY the woman in a failing relationship that we can shift the energy of ANY love scenario and effect ANY relationship to work harmoniously! The man will not be informed about this process at all! Any woman can change ANY man by making pointed changes in her own functioning, thoughts and beliefs. No words needed…
Read on for contest details…
So I did the deed. Last week I held a national call where people could talk to me (FREE of charge – LOL!) about their break ups. I have no mercy. I quickly went into intuitive mode and broke down each of these break ups. I do not stand for the bull. When these Read the rest of this entry »
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Here is my mission statement:
Kenya K Stevens transforms billions of women into powerful feminine avatars by providing relevant support for the rebirth of the feminine soul. I believe women live joyous, orgasmic, magical lives; we absolutely and easily create any form of love relationship, community and/or family we desire!
That said. I promised my Daddy I would define what I feel a viable relationship is. He read my blog and became concerned – I wrote about that too! Come along – Let us love my darlings…
[Youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fNYEQYNjtg&feature=related] I believe you girl. Tracy Chapman is my very favorite musical artist of all time. I know that the time is upon us, look at the economy, relationships, environment. It is time to start all over and make a new beginning. That is my work. I am doing Read the rest of this entry »
As you know, my Dad taught me to write! Cool. I found it really cool that my Dad reads my blog. Now my Dad and I have a great relationship, but he was upset by a few of the things he found here while perusing over 45 posts I have done since last year. My posts can be racy and informative, sexy and New Age…but for sure I think he gets a dose of worry when he considers the things going on in my wonderful life.
Maybe you can help me out on how in handling this situation. Check out a few of his opinions on my post… read his take and leave me a heartfelt comment.
What stuck out most is that my Dad believes that my blogs shine a bad light on me. He said I may not be a good role model and that my stuff is just ‘out there’ in terms of this open relationship piece, and especially the Valentine’s Day story. He said that people need a role model, they need to know that I am perfect or at least faking at perfect.
My Dad feels that clients can not come to a coach who has challenges.
Well Dad, I appreciate that. I see you as my mirror, I must somewhere inside be thinking the same thing. However, I am not down with the school of thought that says follow only those who are perfect.
A.) Because it is not working! B.) Because Perfect is not a noun, it is a verb. Evolution is the only form of Perfection I have ever known…
Perfect, in my book, means ever evolving. We all face challenges. The trouble with life coaching, psychological counseling is that often we have the idea that an expert is someone with no challenges…
WOW – I will think twice before posting a ‘coming soon’ on an upcoming post. My message about the popular drug Viagra has had an amazing impact!
(BTW, Is it legal to use the name of this drug here? – Let me know ya’ll – help me out)…
I fielded more than a few phone calls about when this article would be posted. I even received subliminal messages from you – “when is the article going to come out, you know, the one about Erectile Illiteracy?” LOL! This must be a VERY hot topic!
OK – you know me by now – I always share from the heart and true stories at that! You can bet your life all you are about to read is TRUE!
I an a magical JujuMama! I intuit metaphysical Truths and test Quantum Awareness on a regular basis. I am a relationships scientist! You know that from reading my posts. I am not a safe, meek, risk-free type. I know that I can handle whatever life tosses my way. When faced with a challenge, I dream, explore, develop and SUCCEED – right on time and every single time! So getting with this male ‘issue’ is not different. I had to know what was going on with my man…
T is a good friend who reads my blogs religiously. She told me in a comment that she needs to hear a love story. So for her, I offer this love story. I have a few on this blog (check this one out – How I met and married Carl), but mostly I write about the Purpose of Love and the Bliss that comes from living that purpose…I have not always been such a good wife to my hubby, my mission is to aid other women in releasing control the way I have had to over the years. Release is heaven!
I know that every comment, every person who migrates over to JujuMama has something to teach me – you ARE me! So I heed your words…here goes… My Reston, Virginia Love Story…
New paradigm thought is not like the old stuff. Gone are the days when we could cut the fool all week and then go to church on Sunday to be ‘forgiven’. That is a dying school of thought that lacks the component of human beings take 100% responsibility for the creation of LIFE. New Paradigm Thought does not suggest the absence of a higher power. It simply denotes the fact that a higher power infused itself into us and placed us here to grow through experiences to achieve heaven on Earth rather than after death… (no such thing as death, then?)
Here are a few remnants of that dying thing called the Western Relationship Paradigm with the emerging counterparts:
- Blame vs Responsibility
- Shame vs Tolerance
- Envy vs Acceptance
- Jealousy vs Compersion
- Grudges vs Empathy
- Anger vs Joy
Lets begin with the obvious. You chose that lover of yours now didn’t you? When things get hard, which they will, the first thing we do as Westerners is blame the other person or blame ourselves! Neither of these are going to work much longer. As Aquarius makes her way back to Earth, we are drawn in a new, sexy, direction.
Taking 100% responsibility for the situation is so liberating!
Often clients say ‘Well, Kenya K, why should I take 100% responsibility – isn’t that man or that woman 50% of the problem if not more?’. My response to them is simple. New Paradigm thought [which is actually ancient, holistic thought] is based on the fact that we all exist in our own Universe – Parallel Universes! My Universe is MINE. Everything that happens to me is a part of my Universe. Everything that happens to my mate is occurring in his Universe. So, in essence, when some shit goes down, we both have 100% responsibility for it.
When we view life in this way, we are making room for the obvious – World Peace!
Check this out…My “shamefully evolved” weekend story!
This discussion took place on one of my nationwide phone calls. It really went deeply into the topics of Open Relationships, Swinging, Monogamy and Compersion. We discussed the fact that it has been more acceptable in the past for women to settle with a man who has many women, while women who desire many men have been relegated to the ‘whore’ label. LOL! We spoke about the ancient roots of matriarchal rule as opposed to patriarchal rule. And most importantly we explored several formats for relationships that might be possibilities for couples today who are ready for something that works. Enjoy this recording – 45 minutes – and leave your comments. We welcome your views! Would have posted this on my podcast channel but cannot work the FTP – Somebody help me! Here is the Link – Download or Listen Today!
