Greetings. My husband and I took the time to sit and do these videos the other day. Two more coming soon. Here we discuss the purpose of our open relationship. This is a four part series, look for parts three and four coming soon. I can’t stay up ALL night editing! LOL! Don’e expect HOllywood people, we did them ourselves. But one day, we will roll out an entire series done professionally for the purpose of educating anyone interested in building a foundation strong enough to handle this form of relating. It is definitely not for everyone, but what is? If you like it, enjoy! Leave your comments! It has taken years of work, do not think it was easy. Enjoy – we are really silly.
Part two is a hodge podge of more information. This is off the cuff and unscripted. I wish I owned a teleprompter, then this might be a bit cleaner! LOL! My husband is an absolute nut! I am so in love with this King. Bliss and Enjoy!
For more of my stories about our particular brand of Open Relating, click the tab above “Open Relationship”. Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy!
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March 25th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
Great videos, very informative. Keep up the great work!!
March 26th, 2009 at 3:30 am
Thanks Rakhem and Kenya for sharing your story so candidly. While I don’t subscribe to all of your views on open relationships, I can certainly appreciate them. If nothing else, what an observer should understand is how mature a couple must be to engage in this type of love. A rocky foundation that is complicated by the challenges of “opening up” to and for others is a certain recipe for disaster.
However, you are showing us that when you put the necessary work into yourself, then into the relationship you have with your spouse or significant other, unimaginable things become very possible. And that to me is the beauty of what your relationship displays. Quite contrary to the fears of many married couples, you show that a relationship that is nurtured can produce a level of trust and intimacy beyond our wildest dreams. For those of us who travel this road monogomously, it is inspiration all the same that what lies ahead after the foundation is laid and the work being done, that we too can experience a level of love, trust, and openness that we only dreamed of.
Doesn’t this then (for all of us) lead to a place where the relationship becomes bigger than the 2 participants and become about the pro-creation (positive creation) in the world all around us? Great relationships inspire others to create great relationships. So I am thankful for the inspiration that you are to us to strive to higher levels of awareness in how and why we do the things we do.
Can’t wait to meet you guys!
March 26th, 2009 at 3:37 am
Oh yeah, forgot to mention. There is a great little program you can use for a teleprompter. It is just a text writer, but you can adjust the speed at which it scrolls. Only works on Windows as far as I know, but maybe this will help in the future.
You can find it on CNET here: http://download.cnet.com/BPM-Notepad/3000-2094_4-169644.html
April 2nd, 2009 at 12:35 am
i love you jujumama!! great video and glad to see the bond you and your husband share. BEAUTIFUL;)
April 13th, 2009 at 1:04 am
Hey guys: Well done. I am a relationship counselor, writer and teacher and author the site: http://www.redefiningmonogamy.com. One of my readers passed your stuff along to me and I’m thrilled to see you guys doing your thing, and doing it so well. I look forward to meeting you both or our paths crossing one of these days. Blessings to you, LiYana, Re-Defining Monogamy
July 1st, 2009 at 2:23 pm
No Ma'am. Is this some ploy to get a reality show? Surely you are not so deeply in denial- confused maybe. Your laughter reveals your anxieties and insecurities. Neither you nor your hubby are fooling anybody with good sense. ‘Maturity’ is the ability to respond to the environment in an appropriate manner as opposed to reacting based on instinctual desires. Claiming that something ‘chose you’ expresses immaturity in a way that conveniently avoids responsibility. Which is it? Either get your love together, or get out (and get some close friends in your circle who are not afraid to tell you the truth).
May the God of Abraham have mercy on your family.
July 1st, 2009 at 6:31 pm
You're so sweet L Coleman! Thanks for your comments on JujuMama | Manifest Sexy! Come again soon! We love you! Universal love is sweet, yes, a new order for a new day! And with a 52% divorce rate (higher among born again Christians) and with 66% of married people reporting that one or both spouses have cheated, and with 78% of USA women sexually dispondent and non-orgasmic in the bed with a man – the situation is bleak until we come up with new ideas, fresh approaches and great faith that we do not have to continue down a broken path that has not worked for so many…
May The Creator have mercy on those who are stuck as statistics…
If we always do what we always have done we will always get what we always got!
Life outside the comfort zone can be sweet… sure I am nervous with laughter. But guess what, I am more nervous to end up living the status quo without making one change for the good for myself or my children due to fear.
Fears a small thing to a giant!
~TI
Mauh!
JujuMama xoxoxox