[Thanks to enlightened beings on the inner plains - we have a new contributing writer! Queen Pandora is the mother of six beautiful children and the wife of a luscious king living in Lousiana. Enjoy the beauty of her experiences as she manifests sexy on a daily basis! Yes, mothers can do dat do dat do do dat dat dat... Authors, DIVAS, we welcome your stories of sexy, progressive, relationships BLISS! Get published on JujuMama - send your story to mail@jujumama.com - Muah!]
I just gave birth to my wonderful son about six weeks ago. During the healing process I have done what I think most women should do I told my husband that he needed to find himself a young lady or I would find him a young lady that he could be intimate with so that his sexual apetitite could be fulfilled….
Now, this is not the first time that this has been done in our relationship both my husband and I are swingers, him being a straight male and me being a bisexual female. How did this all begin? After the birth of my first child, I found that it was increasingly necessary that I tell my husband about my need for more sexual stimulation. So we began to visit some swing sites online and he said that he wanted to have another woman in the bed. I was so excited!
Finally I could really be myself! So I told my husband that I am actually bisexual and I love not just the act of being with another woman but the art of femininity! ( I will explain in an upcoming article). He was thrilled saying that he could be finally be himself as well. Thus, we explored our first threesome!
She was awesome chocolate silky skin, a friend of his, and just plain sexy. It took her a minute to warm up to me knowing that she would be sexed up by my man in my prescence but she not only came through but we found that this was going to be one of a healing journey as well. We had dinner and some great drinks and it was a nite of so much passion and fun I could not believe it. Seeing another woman make the same sounds and have the same expressions of passion on her face as I did when he did that made me tingle and tingle and tingle.. Whew!
This was just the beginning.
We found ourselves now planning to have Play Time as we call it. This became part of a needed ritual and not just that but it added to our sex in bed as well because we truly released ourselves to be free. My husband always says, ” If you’re freaky that’s ok,,, just be free.” Trust me this has become his motto. We are now having Play Time with the kids away on the weekends and this is just the best thing ever and so now to the present.
I found that during this journey that I have truly come into the knowledge that I want my husband to be happy in being himself. So for these six weeks this beautiful young lady a friend of mine has been here fulfilling the needs of hubby on any scale and mine as well ;o).. but it has not been a thing of just sexual entertainment but spiritual upliftment..No pent up hubby who can’t be talked and no pent up mommy who can’t get dinner cooked for the kids. It definitely has been six weeks to recovery.
Love and Freedom,
Queen Pandora
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June 4th, 2009 at 2:33 am
Wow! I am grateful that someone along with Kenya has gifted the readers with their personal relationship lifestyle. Monogamy, polygamy, polyamoury, compersion. We all have our preferences and desires. It will be very interesting to see over the years where and how and with whom we intend to share this ecstatic journey with as We evolve and upwardly spiral. Life is for the bold, the brave and all blissed Beings! In the words of musician, Steve Winwood,"Give Me a Higher Love!". This jam will be played at my wedding! See U there!
June 5th, 2009 at 2:42 am
Awesome !! Thank you Kenya!!!
September 16th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
Hmmm. I was on a womb healing journey for about 2 years which left me very disinterested in sexual intimacy with my husband. I wish I had had the courage to "free" him and gift him with consent to seek another lover. Instead I spent days stewing about the fact he might cheat when I didn't have the will, urge or desire to love him. When I did oblige I was critical and resentful.
We eventually recovered but we definately took the long path. My kamasutra is returning but hindsight tells me that I would have healed faster and cameback stronger if I had been free to have a season (3-6months) of celibacy and if he had been free to embrace ecstasy however frequently he needed to.
We'll have to talk about this, because I actually like celibate seasons in life. I like the focus that comes when I abstain. I like the energy of it all, the discipline of this sort of physical fasting. this respite of sorts.