Jujumama

Well, there is a beginning and an end to all things, right?  And truly, if we think of life as a spiraling… and a movement upwards in a continuum of growth at all times, then there is no such thing as beginning and end, or past, present, and future.  I speak to you with words of love.  I speak to you with a voice from highest light.  I want to thank you for reading my journey of a thousand miles…Thank you for taking this journey with me.

Writing my life here, and creating this space has been a riveting experience.  I feel an overwhelming sense of support and love from all of you.  I am up to 40,000 visitors per month from all around the world and it has been with great enthusiasm that I prepared 150 sacred posts for you.  When I post, I think of all of you.  I think about the grace of love, and wonder of life, and the sheer enjoyment of evolution!  This feeling is what has kept me moving forward, as well as the bliss of your sharing.  I sit and wait for your comments like a child on Christmas day… I love knowing that someone is out there, witnessing my life.

I appreciate you.

This is my final post to the JujuMama Blog | Manifest Sexy.

I complete this cycle of my life and ready myself for the new year.  I have done what I needed to do here.  The love revolution has been televised.  I am, now, moving on.  Of course, the blog will remain awake and alive.  There are 150 posts here – that is three full length books for your reading enjoyment ~ all written free of charge, with absolute love and profound endearment.  But with this post, I end the saga – I leave a full year of my life written for all to see.  Nothing sensational about it – this has been, simply, a journey in trust and faith and love that I have allowed to come through me… to you.

Today I found a post on another blog.  I don’t read a lot.  Most of the theories on this blog are intuited…  I like to meditate and see and live a theory in order to know it.  Reading is so intellectual.  My ancestors or angels, or expansions of my imagination have informed my theories… But today I found this.  THIS is the quintessence of what I have meant to say all this time. I do hope you enjoy it as much as I did.  I offer it as a final post here on Jujumama | Manifest Sexy.

Thank you again.  You can always contact me by coming here and clicking “Make An Appointment”.  I am always with you on facebook and twitter and linked in and email – mail@jujumama.com.  I am always your Manifestation and Sexy Love Coach… but this journey, this blog journal, this amazing ride is done.  Enjoy this final post!

I’m Sorry I Love You: Simple Steps to Healing
by Dr. Joe Vitale

Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients – without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.

When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?

It didn’t make any sense. It wasn’t logical, so I dismissed the story…

However, I heard it again a year later. I heard that the therapist had used a Hawaiian healing process called ho’oponopono. I had never heard of it, yet I couldn’t let it leave my mind. If the story was at all true, I had to know more.

I had always understood “total responsibility” to mean that I am responsible for what I think and do. Beyond that, it’s out of my hands. I think that most people think of total responsibility that way. We’re responsible for what we do, not what anyone else does. The Hawaiian therapist who healed those mentally ill people would teach me an advanced new perspective about total responsibility.  [Well, I don't know about new and advanced... The ancients have been practicing this in the jungles of time for a millennium].

His name is Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. We probably spent an hour talking on our first phone call. I asked him to tell me the complete story of his work as a therapist. He explained that he worked at Hawaii State Hospital for four years. That ward where they kept the criminally insane was dangerous. Psychologists quit on a monthly basis. The staff called in sick a lot or simply quit. People would walk through that ward with their backs against the wall, afraid of being attacked by patients. It was not a pleasant place to live, work, or visit.

Dr. Len told me that he never saw patients. He agreed to have an office and to review their files. While he looked at those files, he would work on himself. As he worked on himself, patients began to heal.

“After a few months, patients that had to be shackled were being allowed to walk freely,” he told me. “Others who had to be heavily medicated were getting off their medications. And those who had no chance of ever being released were being freed.”

I was in awe.

“Not only that,” he went on, “but the staff began to enjoy coming to work. Absenteeism and turnover disappeared. We ended up with more staff than we needed because patients were being released, and all the staff was showing up to work.”

This is where I had to ask the million dollar question: “What were you doing within yourself that caused those people to change?”

“I was simply healing the part of me that created them,” he said.

I didn’t understand.

Dr. Len explained that total responsibility for your life means that everything in your life – simply because it is in your life – is your responsibility. In a literal sense the entire world is your creation.

Whew. This is tough to swallow. Being responsible for what I say or do is one thing. Being responsible for what everyone in my life says or does is quite another. Yet, the truth is this: if you take complete responsibility for your life, then everything you see, hear, taste, touch, or in any way experience is your responsibility because it is in your life.

This means that terrorist activity, the president, the economy – anything you experience and don’t like – is up for you to heal. They don’t exist, in a manner of speaking, except as projections from inside you. The problem isn’t with them, it’s with you, and to change them, you have to change you.

I know this is tough to grasp, let alone accept or actually live. Blame is far easier than total responsibility, but as I spoke with Dr. Len, I began to realize that healing for him and in ho’oponopono means loving yourself. If you want to improve your life, you have to heal your life. If you want to cure anyone – even a mentally ill criminal – you do it by healing you.

I asked Dr. Len how he went about healing himself. What was he doing, exactly, when he looked at those patients’ files?

“I just kept saying, ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘I love you’ over and over again,” he explained.

That’s it?

That’s it.

Turns out that loving yourself is the greatest way to improve yourself, and as you improve yourself, you improve your world.

In short, [Dr. Len says] there is no “out there” out there. It would take a whole book to explain this advanced technique with the depth it deserves. Suffice it to say that whenever you want to improve anything in your life, there’s only one place to look: inside you.

And when you look, do it with love…

I offer Tears of Joy, lovelies!  Wasn’t that beautiful?

Full Circle.

Best and Bliss

Love Always

JujuMama xoxo

Kenya K Stevens

Signing off.

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