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This is a testimonial from a woman who went through Cn28 Stay and Play… She is a very brave Cn28 member who chooses to remain anonymous… Enjoy!
Anonymous:
If I told you that a better sex life would improve your financial situation would you believe me?
Don’t be alarmed. I’m not recruiting for an escort service or suggesting anything that would disgrace your bloodline and shame your descendants. I’m talking about tantra. What is tantra? Good question. I’ll let you know when I find out...
So I was reading my Facebook feed yesterday and noticed that the homie Kenya of Jujumama was having a contest.
JujuMama is LOOKING for YOU! We’re GIVING 1 couple a PREMIUM CN28 Stay and Play PACKAGE ($79Value)! ALL we ask in return is you remain OPEN to sharing the success of your relationship with …the JujuMama Family! Only 1 Couple will WIN!
The Post had been up for an hour and no one responded so I jumped in and wrote this:
I want to participate but I’m not married and not on the verge of a break-up. Also my boyfriend thinks that the idea of a relationship workshop over the internet is ridiculous and he refuses to entertain participating.
A day later I was the only one who had responded to the post so I WON! Yay me.
I’ve been aware of Jujumamablog.com for at least two years. My friend introduced me to her and when I first went to Carl and Kenya’s blog I could not understand what she was talking about. Nothing clicked immediately and her ideas didn’t make sense until I got with my sweet lover for the second time in ten years…
Recently I saw this image online and whoa! I had a real reaction to it… the image made my skin tingle, and my heart rate speed up. The image made my body go into a different feeling than I had been in before I saw the Read the rest of this entry »
A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.
John Steinbeck
I LOVE marriage and am an advocate for Mono-Harmonious couples! I have been married 14 years and I love the idea of having a life partner. Today I have made time to write a piece that will answer any questions for those who desire to know what JujuMama LLC – a love coaching company – feels about Monogamy – today I respond in full… This is going to be fun!
Webster’s Dictionary Refers To Monogamy with three definitions:
Definition of MONOGAMY
In current usage monogamy often refers to having one sexual partner irrespective of marriage or reproduction.
Most individuals in Westernized countries are not Monogamous, but Serial Monogamist:
Serial monogamy is characterized by a series of long- or short-term, exclusive sexual relationships entered into consecutively over the lifespan.
Critics of monogamy, such as author and commentator Andrew Sullivan, argue that it involves a damaging self-denial that pushes people out of their natural instincts and that it can be psychologically damaging.
I am not a critic of Serial Monogamy or Monogamy. But I do know that neither exists in Western culture. Why do I say that neither monogamy or serial monogamy exists? That’s simple, the practice of being sexually exclusive is not adhered to by anyone in this country, even when in a stated sexually monogamous or committed relationship, and I can prove it easily…
And keep in mind, I will also share my idea of how we can fix monogamy, with a my sustainable relationship model I introduce here, called Mono-Hamrony. Read On!
Currently JujuMama | Manifest Sexy Blog is under construction. We’re excited to roll out the Full Launch of our new community blog and Love Academy! We are confident you will be just as excited as we are once everything is in place here… What we need you to know Read the rest of this entry »
OK… so I’m not going to cry, I’m going to write.
This is a picture of my sweet men on my birthday, we’re live in the studio just after recording with Abiola. So much has happened since then and it wasn’t until today that I could fully write it because I have now fully experienced it. My heart is stable and my mind is right, for the first time in a week or so, since my boyfriend David caught a late night bus with me back to DC to drop me off with my family… we had all of my things that I’d kept at his house all summer.
Why were my things at his house, well, because I actually lived with him from July 1 – July 18. On July 18, we took a bus to DC to meet my husband who had taken a flight from Mississippi, where he’d been staying with his girlfriend for the summer. We met in DC for a Tantra workshop, one of the best I’ve ever conducted, with a room full of women clad in white and telling stories that seem to all run together about having shut off from sex, sexuality, sensuality and orgasm at a young age.
My men were there as we women wept. We cried together during rituals I conducted to all four gender archetypes. We cried and laughed and loved and remembered to love in that small room in Maryland during the workshop. My men caressed the women, held them energetically in tantric embrace as they melted into past stories to shift themselves, love themselves more deeply. It was me who always said that love is infinite, it is and was and will always be me to say that our mates are mirrors and that we are reflecting them in so many ways, unbelievable ways that must be believed to be perceived and processed appropriately.
Now I see that I see.
My David, I guess I never spoke much about him, I never told the story of our love here, I gave bits and pieces as the entire story is way too much bliss to consume or render in writing in one sitting, even many. So I gave what I thought was enough. But now as I try to write about the end of us, I recall that I never wrote about the beginning of us and then it makes me sad to think of the story as a whole when I don’t feel whole on the inside…
So here goes… this is my longest post ever. But I’m sure you won’t mind. *wink*
Well, well, well… busy summer I”m having, so my husband has been writing here more than I! Fantastic when yo man can get into the trenches of social media with you! giggle. I am here today to tell you that Carl and I just celebrated our Read the rest of this entry »
Post By Author: Carl Stevens | Rakhem Seku
This is the second response to Renee, fellow blogger, regarding my view on relationships. Kudos to Renee for asking the kind of questions that I think most people want to hear about. Her comments from my previous post are in italics throughout this post. The main points I touch on here are:
(1) The masculine vs. the feminine as feeling/emotional beings
(2) The future of the open relationship
(3) Is there a #1 woman/man in the open relationship paradigm
(4) Kenya’s pain as expressed through her writing
(5) Having children with other women
Here is her original post:
“Hello Rakhem!
Thank You for your response.
I must say though, however, that you have misconstrued a couple of my questions. Either that or I didn’t explain myself clearly. 1) I never said women are driven by emotions like jealousy. I said HUMANS are driven by emotion.
Your comment about our ability to see logic over emotion seems to me to be trying to blur the masculine and feminine! The feminine lives in emotion, and this is not to say that the masculine doesn’t also do this, but the point is that it’s a masculine thing to approach things objectively and see LOGIC. The feminine mostly has a superior capacity to feel.
You must have a different idea of the masculine and feminine than I do.”
My response follows:
Post written by author, Carl E Stevens, Jr | Rakhem Seku
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Some comments deserve posts, in and of themselves. This is a response to a comment from Renee, a fellow blogger friend of ours, on my wife’s post Pity Parties & Arse Crack | Fun with My Husbands Lover. I’ll list parts of Renee’s response throughout this post in italics and my responses will follow. She asked good questions! Some I answer here are:
- What is my view of the ideal sexual and relational world?
- Don’t women WANT to be owned by men?
- Aren’t humans driven by emotions like Jealousy?
- A man cannot commit to two women!!!
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I love this article because Tantra is far older than India. I have always said this and I do know that most all ancient civilizations practiced sacred sex… Check this article by Drunvalo. Sex, and specifically the orgasm, is more that just something that feels good and allows procreation. There are many other functions, such as the release of dysfunctional energy within the body, which can help to keep one from becoming diseased. There is the function that opens the higher chakras, and under the right conditions allows a person to begin the process of enlightenment. And further, if two people, lovers, practice sacred sex, the entire experience can lead them together into higher consciousness and into worlds beyond this plane. In relationships, a simple sexual principle, as taught by the ancient Egyptians, can change the energy level within your body and help to bring strength and vitality into your bodies and your relationship. The full Read the rest of this entry »
