Archive | JujuMama's Adventures
Welcome to the Fab Five Lacing Experiment. As all of you know, I am Kenya Kay – JujuMama – Relationship Guru – Advocate for the Re|Feminine|Nation of Women – And Magical DIVA! My powers include working with woman to heal, fix, mend, or save any relationship.
I am currently looking for five fabulous women to [...]
Continue reading...
Wordpress made me a complete man this weekend! I have to dance to release the weight of the profound focus it took to get things working on this blog so far. I’m dancing now, do join me, my twitter friend @girlosophy sent me this – ♫ http://blip.fm/~61h09 – Take a listen and dance yourself [...]
Continue reading...
Why is there is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunction? No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help.
The most common sexual dysfunctions that men experience are: loss [...]
Continue reading...
OK – So what is the deal people? Can someone help me understand when we are going to get rid of this dated concept of manipulation. I mean, this one went out with corsets (well, corsets are sexy, except when they break your ribs). Let’s see, this one went out with ceramic shingles (well, those [...]
Continue reading...
Well, as you know your JujuMama has been really busy lately! AND ~ I just realized that I am one angry Bitch! LOL! Just kidding… But, I used to think of myself as calm, relaxed, intuitive, spiritual and wise. Hopefully this recent anger I uncovered does not usurp my “good” stuff… I can’t freaking believe [...]
Continue reading...
We had fun on this call! We discussed the fact that going too long without touch makes you A Sexual! LOL! It’s true – It goes for men and women alike! We all need – Human Beings Need – Quality Touch on a regular! We also talked about the importance of sensual touch, bliss, orgasm, [...]
Continue reading...
JujuMama LOVES poems, articles and comments from readers! Please send me your stuff mail@jujumama.com
Thanks Queen Pandora for this poem called – Ownership! Fabulous! Enjoy!
Continue reading...
My Twitter friend from New York – a very sexy and wonderful writer and blogger – read my post Why I am So Angry a few days ago. He actually told me that I hadn’t gotten to the real point of how I was actually feeling inside. He said I was holding back and holding [...]
Continue reading...
“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind [...]
Continue reading...
Wow – it has been one hell of a weekend and past week! I had Anais Nin holding space for me as I relocated my office and home to Buckhead. But in the middle there, I went on a trip to NYC! Yes, I packed and moved five people and two dogs and traveled to [...]
Continue reading...
Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
Anais Nin
You know I have to say it – I open to the infinite possibilities of life. I know that, like a chemistry experiment, each human being [...]
Continue reading...
Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.
Anais Nin
So I have a bone to pick with men. Ha! And I haven’t eaten a boned animal [...]
Continue reading...
Wow - I was just feeling badly today, getting tired, thinking that I am a visionary, a misunderstood one at that, and that my ideas are just ahead of their time… I mean my entire purpose seems to run contrary to the current scheme of relating in the country. No sooner have I given up [...]
Continue reading...
So ladies. Let’s talk. Whats all this I hear about low libido women? When I walk on the streets certain people know who I am and maybe they read my blog. They tell me that I am a brave woman for having an open relationship. But they ask me one question or make one simple [...]
Continue reading...
“Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.” – Osho
Did I tell you guys what happened last Thursday? [...]
Continue reading...
“Misery nourishes your ego, that’s why you see so many miserable people in the world. The basic, central point is the ego.”
~Osho
The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes. ~William James
Here is yet another great email I received from a reader. Please people – [...]
Continue reading...
Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…
Kenya
I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never [...]
Continue reading...
Kick Off with us in Miami. JujuMama and crew hit Florida’s Southern Tip Friday July 10, 2009! Join us for the BlissShop that will change your love life forever! Enjoy the luscious ambiance of UVA 69 – Couches, pillows, cocktails and Tantra! Let’s talk relationships baby! Let’s have live demonstrations of Tantra techniques and smooth [...]
Continue reading...
“Your innermost core has always been pure. Purity is intrinsic to you, it cannot be taken away. Your virginity is eternal. You cannot lose it, there is no way to lose it. You can only forget about it or you can remember it. If you forget about it, you live in confusion. If you remember [...]
Continue reading...
This is the answer to the question – WHY ME? Whenever you have a doubt about the purpose for the valuable challenges you face, play this video… All you have to do is allow. Allow life to mold you, shape you, make you new each day! Just allow it! No shame, no [...]
Continue reading...
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love – now you are love.” ~Osho
OK folks, I was saving this content for my upcoming book, The Progressive Relationship™. However, there seems [...]
Continue reading...
So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter. This boy was talking to me. He seemed drunk or something, maybe high. He and I always talk; he is a really cool cat from Chicago. He wants to know if the tour will stop in Chi town. I think it will! We’re looking at [...]
Continue reading...
Thought It Was Me by Bell Biv Devoe – 1985
I was listening to this song the other day and thinking what an interesting subject it makes. Why do men feel that if a woman is warm, fuzzy, blissful, orgasmic, and happy with him that she should not be this way with ALL men, ALL people, [...]
Continue reading...
Man oh Man! I am so excited! I just realized that I (Yes, lil ole ME!!) want a boyfriend in every city I visit! You guys know I am on tour – LOL! I desire a luscious man, at least one, in everywhere I travel… And why not? I have NYC and ATL covered, and [...]
Continue reading...
“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.
Monday was my 14th wedding anniversary and I cried all freaking morning… I cried because I felt old – too [...]
Continue reading...
Wow – yesterday I wrote a post on my blog – a very personal sharing about my 14th wedding anniversary and how I cried all morning…
Today I got an interesting comment from a reader named “Lovely”. I thought I’d use the comment to create for you the image of what a Progressive Relationship actually looks [...]
Continue reading...
Wow! Last night I had a very powerful experience. The background is simple. I have a Universal Love in NYC and I miss him. When I was there this summer for the tour, which he helped me coordinate, we did not have a chance to “get together”. He is very busy with things in the [...]
Continue reading...
Since writing the Progressive Relationship – I have found resonating material… The love paradigm is in full effect! Watch out you guys, it’s coming strong!
Should I Leave or Should I Stay…? It is very empowering to discover that your patterns of thought do not have to follow your current situation, and therefore your current [...]
Continue reading...
Wow!I have had a busy two weeks. Do you like this sample of our latest photos? We’re moving to NYC! So we’ve been in ATL for two weeks to close out our living there and get packed for the Big Apple.While there, I had a few awesome experiences. I thought they were valuable [...]
Continue reading...
I Can Attract Relationships That Agree with My Desires… People are not finding it difficult to find the mate of their dreams because that person is not out there, but because of their own contradiction to their own desire in the thoughts they offer about the subject every day.
When you consistently offer thoughts about [...]
Continue reading...
27. February 2009
12 Comments