I believe you girl. Tracy Chapman is my very favorite musical artist of all time. I know that the time is upon us, look at the economy, relationships, environment. It is time to start all over and make a new beginning. That is my work. I am doing it and so are you Tracy my love, and so are all of you! I LOVE LOVE LOVE you! 2012, here we come!
You need to watch this before reading any of my posts! LOL! Raise your vibration – Thrive Bliss babies. I love you so much! Thank you for reading Jujumama | Manifest Sexy!
Finally – I just posted these to YouTube. Organic Bliss Tantra Events are cool! Come join us for our March 28th Organic Bliss Tantra Event – Atlanta. If you are in another state – bring Organic Bliss to your town!
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Hi People! Â Watch this brief Introduction to the post before reading… Thanks!
So tonight I said NO – AGAIN! Oh don’t trip people, I did not say NO to my husband.  I am so happy that after all these years I rarely if ever say NO to him.  I love to receive the Bliss filled packages he delivers more than ‘quite often’ (you have to check the Viagra Article to know the secret to that!  LOL!)  But this night, there is simply nothing to say NO to.  He was asleep by 9:00 PM just as I put the three kiddies to bed e bye.  So to what or to whom did I say NO?  Well, many things and many people.  This is quite a quandary.
To be plain, I said NO to a friend who called me and said “Kenya, girl, what are you doing?  Come downtown and hang out with us at the W!”.  It’s like ten o’clock, the W is in Midtown, I live up North, 35 miles from Atlanta?  NO I thought.  ”I have to think about that, let me call you back.”  And when I called her back, I closed the deal. NO – sorry – I can’t – not tonight! My Inner Hesitation about doing ANYTHING outside my normal routine is what I take issue with! Why can’t I say YES YES YES to life? Well, I can and I will! The time is now!
I think too damned much with the wrong parts of my brain. Maybe you share this issue? I have been in the habit of giving myself thousands of excuses as to why I should not eat this, why I should not say this, why I should not make love with him, why I should contain myself, why life is not safe and why I must and should always say NO. NO NO NO NO NO!!!!! And so this night was no different – NO to my friends at the W hotel.
Greetings. My husband and I took the time to sit and do these videos the other day. Two more coming soon. Here we discuss the purpose of our open relationship. This is a four part series, look for parts three and four coming soon. I can’t stay up ALL night editing! LOL! Don’e expect HOllywood people, we did them ourselves. But one day, we will roll out an entire series done professionally for the purpose of educating anyone interested in building a foundation strong enough to handle this form of relating. It is definitely not for everyone, but what is? If you like it, enjoy! Leave your comments! It has taken years of work, do not think it was easy. Enjoy – we are really silly.
Part two is a hodge podge of more information. This is off the cuff and unscripted. I wish I owned a teleprompter, then this might be a bit cleaner! LOL! My husband is an absolute nut! I am so in love with this King. Bliss and Enjoy!
For more of my stories about our particular brand of Open Relating, click the tab above “Open Relationship”. Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy!
I LOVE this new Jamie Foxx song! How about you? My own interpretation of the meaning of the song might interest you. I think the song is profound. He is saying BLAME it on the alcohol – blame your authentic feelings, your desire to choose BLISS on a substance. The real deal is that we do not actually need the substance to express feminine desire. (Not that there is anything innately wrong with partaking in spirits. There is metaphysical purpose in that too! LOL!)
Basically Jamie has noted a key element in our society at this time. Women are fronting on the sex tip! Not all women, but many women carry real guilt about their sexual desires. Thus, they ‘get loose’ when they drink alcohol, the alcohol makes us free of the incessant need to judge ourselves about our natural, yet extremely suppressed, sexual energy.
OK – So what is the deal people? Can someone help me understand when we are going to get rid of this dated concept of manipulation. I mean, this one went out with corsets (well, corsets are sexy, except when they break your ribs). Let’s see, this one went out with ceramic shingles (well, those are sort of elegant). OK fine, this one went out with the concept of BLAME. Nothing pretty about blaming someone else for any part of your life right?
Same senselessness in choosing to believe in another dying paradigm – Manipulation. SO we’re gonna look at this because we have to. Men and women alike are afraid to be called a manipulator. Yet, we want to master the Law of Attraction, we want to become Creators of our lives. But, the two concepts do not fit together ~ manifestation and manipulation. Blame is the essence of manipulation. If someone is “manipulating” another or (heaven forbid) manipulating you, then you do not believe that you create your life. You in fact believe in the concept of blame… right?
No one is doing anything to us. We are creating everything for ourselves. AND, when we ladies put on that feminine energy and shine it into the world, we are not ‘doing anything’ to anyone, we are simply using our natural talent to manifest our desires quickly and easily! Feminine magnetism is MAGICAL!
How can we think that working magic in our lives to create what we desire can be a form of manipulation? Come now.
Wow – my fourth of July is really heating up! In fact, it’s pretty explosive. It’s fabulous! I received another email today about the fact that I trust a man who has no integrity… Yes, the ladies are talking about my husband who married me in 1995. We have lived through house fire, cancer, welfare, kids, and have loved through it all. We have loved for 14 years. They are saying that I am trusting a fool…
Odd, this sounds really familiar to something I used to hear my mother say in response to why she could not follow my father. My father who protected and loved her, still loves her, they have been married 37 years. In fact, I hear clients say this all of the time, “I want to follow my husband, adore my husband, trust my husband, but he is lacking integrity, he isn’t smart, he’s into chasing women… He doesn’t love me right.”
Here is the letter my reader wrote – We’ll look at this and talk about trust in this post:
Hi Kenya
I’ve been reading your blog for a while, but I have never commented. But I could not let your last post go past me. You were not sincere in that post. You were angry, as you should have been, but to pass off what was a painful night for you as something that was “passage of an individual moving away from the Western, cookie cutter paradigm into a new world order” was not being honest with your readers nor yourself…
I was listening to this song the other day and thinking what an interesting subject it makes. Why do men feel that if a woman is warm, fuzzy, blissful, orgasmic, and happy with him that she should not be this way with ALL men, ALL people, in fact!? Why would a man want a woman who is happy with him and then indifferent to the rest of the world? Can she be happy, blissful and free in general? Or just with him?…
Kenya K. Stevens is a Love Coach - Tantra Goddess - Femininity Advocate - Dynamic Speaker - Best Selling Author - Sex Positive Blogger - Mother - Wife - and of course Manifestation Mogul. The purpose of this blog is to tell the story of her, traditional, 14 year marriage and how it blossomed into Open | Progressive | Bliss in the course of just two years!
Kenya K Stevens and her husband Carl Stevens are currently conducting national and international workshops on Tantra Healing, Relationships Bliss, The Progressive Relationship and Sun|Moon Manifestation. To book them for your speaking needs, or to plan a workshop in your area, call 703-774-5676 or 5336.
25. February 2009
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