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Posts Tagged ‘Change Your Man’
I am that… yes, ahead of my time… I realize that I identify with this ad and with Steve Jobs because I am different, I am what some of you consider to be a different thinker… but I am real, I am sincere and I am committed to my purpose: To undo the guilt and shame that women and men feel about sensual/spiritual/sexual acts of love – thus opening millions to the Aquarian Paradigms of Universal Love, Progressive Love and Boundless Power to Manifest Anything Desired!
This week I have placed some older stories to the front page… I went digging in the JujuMama crates to see how far we’ve come as ONE… Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy circa 2008!
Here is the original post | Ahead of My Time | January 1, 2009
It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier
This is the secret key to love…
Ladies, I have heard some women complaining that their man is not willing to give up enough of the good stuff. I even speak with women in their 20’s and 30’s stating that their boyfriends are unable to perform at various moments in time.
OK?
Well please note – there is an easy cure for this. I spoke about it in detail in my article on Viagra. However, here is the short version. If you want your man to be hard, you have to be soft.
It is really just that simple. You cannot run about all day bossing him around, complaining, being tough, independent, irritated and even hurtful with your words or actions and then expect for him to make love with you, or WANT to make love with you. Sure, you can expect him to do so, but if he is holding on to inner rage about your arrogant and disrepectful behavior, he will not be able to perform. Over time this looks like erectile dysfunction, but guess what? He only has it with you! LOL! So it ain’t real!
Girl, I have been there and done that in my eleven years of monogamy (I’ve been married since I was HOT and 21!!!).
It is not fun, and it is hard to accept that the cause of his “issue” may be some behavior on your part. But once you take ownership for your entire life, including the way that others treat you, you will become empowered to change anything about any relationship with a mild shift in your own behaviors! Sound too hard? Well try living with an erectile dysfunctional man for a few more years and then come back to this post and try following this advise.
I think you will then kiss me!
Try this trick to get some good stuff this weekend:
So yes, this post is for new Jujumama readers. I have to catch you up! When I first started this blog I was in a regular, monogamous relationship. I don’t mean to make it sound drab. It was fabulous! Monogamy is a workable plan. I wanted it for so long in my teens and when I turned 21, I got it! I married my King! That was almost 14 years ago.
Our relationship was not ordinary. We are both upwardly mobile, Howard University Grads, and trained Shamans in the metaphysical Traditions. Having been trained by elders who practice Polygamy, that is: one poly man and many mono wives, we are familiar with alternative lifestyles; have seen them up close and personal. But we decided not to go that route.
Our decision lasted for 12 strong years until one day, my husband fell in love! I did not know it at the time, but when he fell in love outside our marriage, my ascent to personal liberation began.
You could not have told me that his falling in love would liberate me back then. I would have knocked you out! Mama said knock you out – huuuhh! This was a perilous uphill battle for me.
But this is my Menage a Montage. In this post I summarize my journey into Bliss as best I can… Maybe it will help you in your relationships!
I will tell you with video (coming soon) and words all about how my husband and I got to this point of openness in our marriage. Freedom was at first strange and terrifying – Freedom, finally, feels unimaginable good. I cannot believe I am writing these words… the journey has been life altering.
This did not happen over night and it was a struggle for me to drop the false identity painted onto my skin and into my soul. Mind of my mind, soul of my soul, how did I allow Western Thought to take total control of me? Once, just a short while ago, I blogged about how I should have the right to OWN my husband’s Mind, Body, Soul and most especially, his penis!
It only took three years for my husband to convince me release the pain of the past, the brainwashing of modern times, and open to flow and a new Paradigm. How did he do it? How did we do it? Well, it is a rather interesting tale…
Happy Spring Equinox To You! Happy New You! Did you walk through the doorway of the Spring Season with a little Pep in your step? Great! So, we had a really fun time the other night on our Love and Law of Attraction Call – Join The National Meet-Up Group Here. We played a series of Law of Attraction Games in celebration of the Spring Equinox! You have to hear the entire call – things got really wild!! The girls got Cool and Moist speaking life into their new realities! We discussed the fact that as women we want to be free in 2009! Free of what? Free of outmoded, antiquated, and frankly ridiculous notions of Puritanical ideas around sensuality! Now is the time! We are not going to settle for the Okey Doke any longer! Some of the ladies spoke on love, others spoke on sensual confidence. We all played the game to shift our energy for the Spring Equinox Season! Play Along ~ Have Your 45 minute dose of Bliss!
- Speak Life Into Your New Love Habits
- Shift Your man With Water
- Fawning – A Feminine Game
So I had a client who asked me about the frequent fights she and her lover get into. I tried to share a way to handle this, but she got annoyed – happens in growth. We spoke a while longer and this download came directly from the stars! Yes, believe it or not!
Men are Stabilizers, Women are harmonizers.
Look at it this way. Women embody moisture, much more water than men. Women carry that water in bellies, breasts and hips. Women have more water on the brain! Women also have strong Earth components. For instance, women can be planted with a seed (physical and mental) and bring forth birth of that seed as life – like the Earth. The seed is fed with water – the water that accumulates in the womb or the psychic womb.
Men embody fire. Their testicles (house of the seed) is outside their bodies, thus they are able to sustain more fire without harming future generations. They house fire in muscle mass. Have you ever heard the phrase ‘burn the fat’. What mechanism in the body burns the fat? Why of course, it is muscle. In the muscle there are literal, fire factories burning fuel (food, fat) just like a factory burning garbage. Men have a greater capacity for muscle mass. Men also embody the element air. Men are dry, much drier than women. Even a large man will house on average less moisture than a small women! He is mostly muscle mass while she has loads of water on those breast and hips.
SO what does this have to do with an argument?
I was Twittering a friend who thinks she may be jinxing her relationship. This friend is quite intuitive because she is right! We are talking about energy here and yes, we do at times jinx relationships, money, career, and friendships with old thoughts from the past: What if he is sleeping around? What if she does not really love me? What if I fail? What if he is playing me? What if the world is coming to an end?
These thoughts seem viable - you buy in.
Here are a few suggestions on how to use the Juju to fix the Jinx…
Scenario: Long distance relationship
Jinx: I don’t trust my partner…
Juju: Now wait just a minute here. You manifested a long term relationship so that you could work on this trust issue. Do not run away from your power. Your power is always in growth.
Look at it this way. If you have a certain finite amount of energy in life and half or more of that energy is tied up in thoughts of fear, then what will you manifest?
You will manifest less than HALF of your true potential. By that I mean you will get half the love, half the money and half the peace all because you continue to choose to focus more than half your energy entertaining questions of fear.
So now that you know you manifested this thing on purpose, let’s talk Juju. If you are willing to think outside the box you have to first begin with your trust in Universal Law. One important law is that we can only get what we give. So look at yourself (I know we are used to focusing on others) but look deep within and ask yourself what are you giving? Are you giving that long distance beau the satisfaction of knowing that he or she can trust you? Are you calling and being sweet and being kind and saying words that = you can trust me? Or when you call are you being suspicious, asking about whereabouts and pondering ways that this person could be messing with you mind – untrustworthy?
This is An AWESOME discussion held Friday March 6, 2009 on Blog Talk with host Curtis Duncan. Curtis was a gracious host – we really got to the heart of a few matters:
- How To Change Your Man – Quantum Effects
- How To Open To Love – Feminine Flow
- How To Create Better Relationships
I spaced out a bit – you know me always in trance. See if you can tell… when it happened. Take a listen, leave a comment. Let’s talk about this – men too! I would love to open a dialogue about these concepts – Listen NOW! Comm
ent later… Click Here to Listen or Download Love To You Bliss Babies! Kenya K Stevens
Welcome to the Fab Five Lacing Experiment. As all of you know, I am Kenya Kay – JujuMama – Relationship Guru – Advocate for the Re|Feminine|Nation of Women – And Magical DIVA! My powers include working with woman to heal, fix, mend, or save any relationship.
I am currently looking for five fabulous women to test out my Lacing Process combined with Relationship Rescue which is a new process I have been working on for a few years.
If you are in a relationship that is flailing, failing, or being hampered by known or unknown ‘issues’, you are the perfect candidate for this experiment. I can only take FIVE women. This service will be delivered to you 100% free of charge.
I will work with you personally to heal your life from the inside out such that you attract or receive exactly what you desire in love…
Here is my hypothesis: I believe that by working with ONLY the woman in a failing relationship that we can shift the energy of ANY love scenario and effect ANY relationship to work harmoniously! The man will not be informed about this process at all! Any woman can change ANY man by making pointed changes in her own functioning, thoughts and beliefs. No words needed…
Read on for contest details…
Ade and Ombassa interviewed JujuMama on BlogTalkRadio!
This is really funny! Ade, the wonderful man he is, decided to put JujuMama to the test about by first book Change Your Man. He did get testy but JujuMama held her own, as usual! LOL!
Get the full recording here, download to your iPod or listen!
Get the full story on exactly what JujuMama means when she says Manifest Sexy! Yes You Can change YO man – it begins with practicing the sacred art of Feminine Flow…
Masta dat! And you have got life all wrapped up in a paper bag folks! Enjoy! Hilarious! Freaking Hilarious!
Link – Download or Listen NOW - Enjoy!
I feel you. Yes I do. Someone on facebook just mentioned she was single because she is crazy. LOL! Not all single people would admit to this, and most are not crazy…However what are you? Are you single and happy? Good for you! I feel that!
What is this article about? Well, that’s pretty darned simple. If you are single I know that you haven’t always been, so what’s happnin in the love department? It has to be one of eleven things:
- You just enjoy being alone in that place, no messes to clean besides your own.
- You don’t like people, too complicated.
- You don’t want to impose your crazy self upon another human, living soul.
- You don’t believe in love – the shit is foolish and never works out to good.
- You haven’t found THE ONE – the MANY, however, you find quite appealing.
- You are struggling with sexual preference issues.
- You have lost your mind working and cannot come up for air.
- Your parents did not set a good example, so you are afraid to become them.
- Your dogs or cats or fish don’t like people.
- You are having a bad hair life.
- You can count on one hand the percentage of tolerance you have for foolishness, besides your own, of course.
I feel that – I feel all of it! So what you gone do? And who am I to judge you, right? I have been married since the ripe and raw age of 21? I got lucky, right? Hit the jackpot! My man has a large income, so I need to shut my mouth, right?
Well, believe it or not my man didn’t fall from the heavens (that’s obvious if you’ve read my posts) but I did create him with my bare hands. Here is a little excerpt from Change Your Man – my fabulous first book – that explains exactly how I did it! Enjoy!
