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Well, there is a beginning and an end to all things, right? And truly, if we think of life as a spiraling… and a movement upwards in a continuum of growth at all times, then there is no such thing as beginning and end, or past, present, and future. I speak to you with words of love. I speak to you with a voice from highest light. I want to thank you for reading my journey of a thousand miles…Thank you for taking this journey with me.
Writing my life here, and creating this space has been a riveting experience. I feel an overwhelming sense of support and love from all of you. I am up to 40,000 visitors per month from all around the world and it has been with great enthusiasm that I prepared 150 sacred posts for you. When I post, I think of all of you. I think about the grace of love, and wonder of life, and the sheer enjoyment of evolution! This feeling is what has kept me moving forward, as well as the bliss of your sharing. I sit and wait for your comments like a child on Christmas day… I love knowing that someone is out there, witnessing my life.

I appreciate you.
This is my final post to the JujuMama Blog | Manifest Sexy.
I complete this cycle of my life and ready myself for the new year. I have done what I needed to do here. The love revolution has been televised. I am, now, moving on. Of course, the blog will remain awake and alive. There are 150 posts here – that is three full length books for your reading enjoyment ~ all written free of charge, with absolute love and profound endearment. But with this post, I end the saga – I leave a full year of my life written for all to see. Nothing sensational about it – this has been, simply, a journey in trust and faith and love that I have allowed to come through me… to you.
Today I found a post on another blog. I don’t read a lot. Most of the theories on this blog are intuited… I like to meditate and see and live a theory in order to know it. Reading is so intellectual. My ancestors or angels, or expansions of my imagination have informed my theories… But today I found this. THIS is the quintessence of what I have meant to say all this time. I do hope you enjoy it as much as I did. I offer it as a final post here on Jujumama | Manifest Sexy.
Thank you again. You can always contact me by coming here and clicking “Make An Appointment”. I am always with you on facebook and twitter and linked in and email – mail@jujumama.com. I am always your Manifestation and Sexy Love Coach… but this journey, this blog journal, this amazing ride is done. Enjoy this final post!
I’m Sorry I Love You: Simple Steps to Healing
by Dr. Joe Vitale
Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients – without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.
When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?
It didn’t make any sense. It wasn’t logical, so I dismissed the story…
I am that… yes, ahead of my time… I realize that I identify with this ad and with Steve Jobs because I am different, I am what some of you consider to be a different thinker… but I am real, I am sincere and I am committed to my purpose: To undo the guilt and shame that women and men feel about sensual/spiritual/sexual acts of love – thus opening millions to the Aquarian Paradigms of Universal Love, Progressive Love and Boundless Power to Manifest Anything Desired!
This week I have placed some older stories to the front page… I went digging in the JujuMama crates to see how far we’ve come as ONE… Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy circa 2008!
Here is the original post | Ahead of My Time | January 1, 2009

Wow!I have had a busy two weeks. Do you like this sample of our latest photos? We’re moving to NYC! So we’ve been in ATL for two weeks to close out our living there and get packed for the Big Apple.While there, I had a few awesome experiences. I thought they were valuable and you may enjoy peeping in… giggle.
My fun began the second day that I was back to Atlanta.We were staying at a hotel in Buckhead and there was this cool little Diner nearby.A friend on Twitter told me that my Tweets were featured in RedBook Magazine!So I rushed on over the CVS to pick it up!With book in hand I went to the little Diner to eat and read!
When I walked in there was this amazingly beautiful man standing right there, right in the doorway. He seemed to be the host of the restaurant, but later I found that he was the owner – or at least his parents owned the place…

So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter. This boy was talking to me. He seemed drunk or something, maybe high. He and I always talk; he is a really cool cat from Chicago. He wants to know if the tour will stop in Chi town. I think it will! We’re looking at Monday August 3!
Either way, this boy, in his drunken stupor, twitted me a deeply eye-opening message. After addressing him as King, which is the way I address most men I come into contact with, he wrote me back addressing me as Queen FREAK!
QUEEN FREAK! WTF?
This pounded me to the floor of my soul. I felt the rip inside of me and immediately I was back in high school where FREAK was the worst word in the world. Ladies, do you feel me? I hated THAT word! I hated it with a passion. I probably hated it most when I was the subject of the conversation in which it was used which seemed unavoidable in my school. Every girl was at one point or another considered a FREAK. This Twitter boy was offering me the opportunity to grow past my teenage self! A real blissing in disguise…

WOW! This is the first year in 14 years that I did not have birthday sex. Usually I trip about the entire thing. This year, I have evolved… My husband was out doing a tantra session after our HUGE DC Event last night. The Sexiest Seminar went long in DC and then we had an after party on U Street. Fabulous!
After the after party, there was a woman who wanted a personal tantra session. My husband reluctantly asked me if it was OK to do this on my birthday, I suppose he recounted the years I have gone completely ballistic when he ignored my conditioned behavior pattern of wanting sex specifically on my birthday. He recalls the times I tripped out when it didn’t seem to be forthcoming. He seemed fearful in the asking, but I said YES. YES, go and have a session with this lovely young lady. This is your job…

Many believe that Jujumama goes hard on the women. Some believe I go hard on the guys. Lesbians think I am hetero centered and I have not heard from any gay men, so I don’t know… but I am in the center of all of that so please get it straight. I go hard on Western Cultural relationships. They do not work – for the most part… and stats prove it. A 60% divorce rate = for the most part. Yes?

Anywhoooo. I have to crack open another double standard tonight. But it is of it’s own making. Western culture is male based and so this one is sort of to be expected. Men get the short in of the stick in many matters of the heart. For instance – divorce – I see it all of the time. Women get upset at the man because he is acting out… Women, you know, they want a divorce. Right? But often, the men began going to the strip club, “cheating” (which is the silliest concept I ever heard in my life) or being violent based on other circumstances. Circumstances that involve women…
Wow - I was just feeling badly today, getting tired, thinking that I am a visionary, a misunderstood one at that, and that my ideas are just ahead of their time… I mean my entire purpose seems to run contrary to the current scheme of relating Read the rest of this entry »

Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.
Anais Nin
So I have a bone to pick with men. Ha! And I haven’t eaten a boned animal since I was 16! LOL! This has been on my heart for a moment. Men want happy, satisfied, whole, pleasable women, correct? This blog is all about how women can treat men better, love and respect men more, manifest sexy with the shift in focus – find love again in the arms of men… But there is something more to it.
There is something men must do in order to attract the orgasmic woman he desires, the type of woman who relax and allow a man’s leadership… Here it is: Men must RELAX and accept women for who and what we are. We are not men. We are woman. Women who have been trained to be men. But when we learn to become women again, we will desire to share our love with the world. A woman’s love is uncontainable, uncontrollable, and free like the breeze… That means, you can enjoy it but you cannot own it…
Yes. I said it.
We will submit and surrender, honor and respect you, but never will you be able to contain our love for just yourself. Not any more…

[Thanks to enlightened beings on the inner plains - we have a new contributing writer! Queen Pandora is the mother of six beautiful children and the wife of a luscious king living in Lousiana. Enjoy the beauty of her experiences as she manifests sexy on a daily basis! Yes, mothers can do dat do dat do do dat dat dat... Authors, DIVAS, we welcome your stories of sexy, progressive, relationships BLISS! Get published on JujuMama - send your story to mail@jujumama.com - Muah!]
I just gave birth to my wonderful son about six weeks ago. During the healing process I have done what I think most women should do I told my husband that he needed to find himself a young lady or I would find him a young lady that he could be intimate with so that his sexual apetitite could be fulfilled….

Why is there is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunction? No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help. Read the rest of this entry »
