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So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter. This boy was talking to me. He seemed drunk or something, maybe high. He and I always talk; he is a really cool cat from Chicago. He wants to know if the tour will stop in Chi town. I think it will! We’re looking at Monday August 3!
Either way, this boy, in his drunken stupor, twitted me a deeply eye-opening message. After addressing him as King, which is the way I address most men I come into contact with, he wrote me back addressing me as Queen FREAK!
QUEEN FREAK! WTF?
This pounded me to the floor of my soul. I felt the rip inside of me and immediately I was back in high school where FREAK was the worst word in the world. Ladies, do you feel me? I hated THAT word! I hated it with a passion. I probably hated it most when I was the subject of the conversation in which it was used which seemed unavoidable in my school. Every girl was at one point or another considered a FREAK. This Twitter boy was offering me the opportunity to grow past my teenage self! A real blissing in disguise…
Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…
Kenya
I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never had sex. The opportunity of sex has always been there, but there was no one I ever felt it would be “right” with. I thought I would be in a relationship with a man, fall in love, etc. then have sex with him. But for the first time I’ve met a man whom I have no desire to be in a relationship with but I am extremely attracted to him mentally, physically and emotionally. I know that we attract what we are but I can’t seem to figure this one out. I admit that I am nervous about being alone with him because there is no doubt that I would give myself to him. I know I would not regret it because I don’t regret any decisions that I make, instead I simply learn from them. I don’t agree with everything you say but I am open to all that you say. With that being said I would appreciate some insight on this.
Thank you,
Anonymous
I have replied below… Thanks!
Well, as you know your JujuMama has been really busy lately! AND ~ I just realized that I am one angry Bitch! LOL! Just kidding… But, I used to think of myself as calm, relaxed, intuitive, spiritual and wise. Hopefully this recent anger I uncovered does not usurp my “good” stuff… I can’t freaking believe this myself! Amazing…
I think that this anger has been for years covered over and so I did not even know it was bubbling just beneath the surface. But luckily I do loads of work on myself, EFT, Tantra, Lacing so almost daily I am digging to uncover my grace. I am going to tell you about this inner RAGE in hopes that you can offer a hand in helping me settle myself. This new discovery is making me think that more women must feel this way, maybe you too have buried the RAGE beneath the surface…?
I realized this latent RAGE when this weekend my husband and I took a little get-away together. We actually found ourselves floating on a swing in the park near a beautiful river talking, yes, talking for the first time in months! I mean, we talk every day, but not on a wooden swing near a lake with no kids shouting that the dogs have run away and are now biting the neighbors – we could be sued! And certainly not without cell phones, house phones, Internet, iPods, kids, dogs, housekeepers, assistants, clients and friends…
But here at the river, we became blissfully and sensually intimate in our discussion and for heaven’s sake, I let it all out!
I am currently doing a large spread on The Erotic Life of Women prior to Patriarchal Rule… Here is a prelude to a Kiss my lovelies… I found this article online and it is spot on! The ancient art of ambrosia (female ejaculation) is a resurging mystery that intrigues more and more modern-day people. Esoteric traditions (Tantric and Taoist) and western science have many perspectives on this form of female sexual expression. Both perspectives have value in shedding light on this at once controversial and mysterious topic. To more fully understand female ejaculation, an exploration into the nature of female sexual essence is necessary. YIN is symbolized by the ocean or water, and a woman’s essence is a living example of this: deep, mysterious, fluid. The power of the Feminine/YIN sexual energy can be frightening; from having the ability to host another life within her to accessing what seems like limitless bliss. In the Taoist traditions YIN is considered inexhaustible, cool, earthy, receptive and fertile. Today, most women have lost contact with their deeper YIN essence having been encouraged to primarily cultivate the YANG, or more surface aspects of themselves. This is largely due to the lack of broader sex education, early social conditioning, and religious dogma. As advanced as our society is, our understanding of sexual energy and its Read the rest of this entry »
