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Posts Tagged ‘law of attraction’
So many women want to know is it necessary to marry. I mean with this entire idea of open love and Universal Love, why marry? Right? Well, in my humble opinion, I think that marriage is a foundational step in obtaining what we think of as Universal Love. Now please allow me to explain…
Do I believe that one has to be married in order to be happy? No. Of course not. Happiness is a choice. We can choose at any phase of life to be happy. And we should, because happiness begets happiness. If we are happy single, chances are we will meet happy people and enjoy happy relationships!
Do I believe that without a man, women are doomed? No way! One can spend a lifetime without a man and still enjoy the bounties of life!
What I am saying is that, as a married woman, I believe that marriage is good for me and a needed component in my life, even as I now have an Open Relationship. I have come up with a few reasons as to why marriage is so wonderful. Click and enjoy!
WOW! I am so excited to share this little note that came into my inbox after the call last night. A wonderful soul, and good friend of mine wrote me a letter that I now call – the note from my own hell. Let’s talk about heaven and hell for a moment since it is, oddly enough and still, such a large paradox of modern culture…
Heaven is supposed to be a place we go when we die, if we are pure at heart – sinners, Fat Change! Heaven is supposed to have pearly gates and cool, flowing, river of joy to bath in and stuff. Good people go here to meet their maker. Sound fun! Hell, on the other hand, is the only other option. (should there not be a middle place for those who did some good and some bad…? And BTW who defines good and bad for us? LOL!) If you were “bad” this lifetime, you will go to hell when you die… OK? And rumor has it that you will burn eternally.
So, of course, I have another spin on these mythological places called heaven and hell. I don’t want to offend anyone, but certain non-Cristian, non-Islamic, non-Judaism based traditions have certain beliefs and sociologist in the West deem these beliefs “mythology”. Other traditions have other beliefs and sociologists deem these beliefs “fact”. I am a bit confused as to which as which, thus, I deem all traditional stories, religious beliefs and so forth, mythology. I simply even the playing field, right? If one culture is said to have a religion based on “mythology” and another’s are “fact”, and there are literally millions of different cultural/religious beliefs in the world, then who decides which is mythology and which is fact? So I’ll be fair -then – and say that it is all mythology. Don’t be offended, mythology is not a demeaning, condescending, dirty, word. Right? If it IS a dirty word then why are we using it to describe a cultural or religious belief anywhere in the world? You feel me? LOL!
Come on ya’ll. I don’t play… So lets move on to the note that I received from my hellish self!!!
Wow – I am so happy for Whitney Houston. And I am really excited for Bobby Brown too. What? Oh, you didn’t expect for me to say that, huh? Well, I said it. I love both of these amazing human beings who agreed to show us all what it looks like to live in a relationship with:
A. No relationships training
B. No relationships support
C. Without consciously taking 100% responsibility for manifesting creation.
Oh yes. Bobby and Whitney are but models to demonstrate to America and Americans what is going on in each of our relationships to some degree or another. They agreed to do it, to show us, to be the model for us to look at, judge, decipher, pontificate over and thus become closer to discovery of our own selves. Kudos Blissed couple! You even did a great little reality show for us to get the inside scoop…
Wow!I have had a busy two weeks. Do you like this sample of our latest photos? We’re moving to NYC! So we’ve been in ATL for two weeks to close out our living there and get packed for the Big Apple.While there, I had a few awesome experiences. I thought they were valuable and you may enjoy peeping in… giggle.
My fun began the second day that I was back to Atlanta.We were staying at a hotel in Buckhead and there was this cool little Diner nearby.A friend on Twitter told me that my Tweets were featured in RedBook Magazine!So I rushed on over the CVS to pick it up!With book in hand I went to the little Diner to eat and read!
When I walked in there was this amazingly beautiful man standing right there, right in the doorway. He seemed to be the host of the restaurant, but later I found that he was the owner – or at least his parents owned the place…
Wow! Last night I had a very powerful experience. The background is simple. I have a Universal Love in NYC and I miss him. When I was there this summer for the tour, which he helped me coordinate, we did not have a chance to “get together”. He is very busy with things in the city, and I am always busy with things for Jujumama. But that isn’t why we did not “hook up”. In fact, I was walking on Broadway and 28th looking for a dress for the event when he found me! Apparently he had called my husband to find out where I was. He came to the hotel, to surprise me, but I was on the avenue shopping when we literally ran into each other…
He helped me. As usual, this Universal Love is always helping me. He hooks me up with the right people, he cares about my career and about my happiness. He is so YANG n YUMMY! So when I exasperatingly expressed that I needed a dress and to have my hair done, he quickly showed me the places in the Jungle of the NYC streets where I could get everything I needed in a pinch! And then it was done! After my hair do, he came back to escort me to the event in his luscious SUV with black tinted windows and smooth rims to match. I was a lil late, but that’s OK. giggle…
Try this flirting experiement and leave your results here on the comments page… Juju xoxox
Post By: Makeisha Phillips – Contributing Writer – this story is raw, real, beautiful, blissful… We feel you DIVA!
Living an authentic life. What does that mean? Everyday I rise and think of how I can grow and be better and yet sometimes I don’t know if some of the things I want to do symbolize growth or deterioration. Despite my best efforts to rise above it I am still confronted with the realities of living in a society that is riddled with lines drawn in the sand and limitations. The male/yang dominated ideas of womanhood and goodness. These ideas follow me when I pass the kitchen and have no desire to cook, they follow me when I yearn in the night for a lovers touch.
I question the sanctity of my body and my choices to share or not share. The arbitrary definitions of words such as mother, wife, lover, friend, partner, sister….. I wish to define these things for myself. Yet I vacillate because I don’t want to address the question marks in the eyes of those who have known me till today. I think most of us, at least I do, want to live a life free of shame and guilt. I want to know that the love and affection I feel with and for others is not dependent on my adherence to the status quo.
What if I choose to love with reckless abandon? Does that make me less worthy of a life long partnership with someone who can accept me fully. How do I live life for all that its worth, experiencing all that my heart has the capacity to hold, and not suffer the consequences of getting out of line with the communal expectation? Were not all trail blazers somewhat ostracized? I mean Einstein, GW Carver, and others were all considered different. People didn’t always get it when they shared their process and the way they saw the world…
I love Physics. In fact when I completed my degree at Howard University I thought of going back to get a Masters in Physics! I never did, but I educated myself on these very important laws… One of which is a lover’s dream law!
Here it is…
For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
YUMMY! Right? This law of physics most certainly applies in love. Physics is the study of matter. The basis of matter is energy. Energy is the wonderful thing that makes a relationship tick. This summer our tour focused on applying this gem of a law to our love lives…
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love – now you are love.” ~Osho
OK folks, I was saving this content for my upcoming book, The Progressive Relationship™. However, there seems to be a little bit of confusion. So you know I have to clear it up. I love clarity and light… how about you?
So today I am going to define what I call A Progressive Relationship™. This is just my opinion and the basis of my work… You have to define for yourself what you think a progressive relationship is. Or maybe you’ll make it easy on yourself and agree with my assessment.
The reason for the huff is that many believe that when I say Progressive Relationship I mean an Open Relationship… That simply is not so. As I review my past 100 posts, I can see how this could have been misconstrued…
An open relationship can be progressive, and a monogamous relationship can be progressive, in fact gay or lesbian, family or work-related, partnerships or spiritual unions… Any style or format of relating can be considered progressive.
Here are my four principles on Progressive Love…
We cannot serve our purpose when anchored to a prevailing mindset that does not serve our purpose ~ J.S. Perkins
Wow – so last night was interesting. I had a couple to counsel whom are on the verge of divorce. I love these two human beings, they are both so wonderful. However, like most of us, they are unwilling to go beyond their comfort zones. She is unwilling to even consider a reconciliation because she is so angry and hurt. I do not know what he is unwilling to do. So far he has been willing to do just about anything I suggest, maybe his unwillingness was in the relationship – he was passive aggressive and had done loads of covert things to her that she is now fed up with… She called it manipulation.
And it ain’t just them, it’s so many couples going through similar issues. Years and years of built up emotion, unresolved and unsettled stuff just looming in the minds of both partners… I think it is imperative that we get these things out on the table. I do it through a process I call the Three Way Mirror. Now to just get her to come along and participate…
