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Well, there is a beginning and an end to all things, right? And truly, if we think of life as a spiraling… and a movement upwards in a continuum of growth at all times, then there is no such thing as beginning and end, or past, present, and future. I speak to you with words of love. I speak to you with a voice from highest light. I want to thank you for reading my journey of a thousand miles…Thank you for taking this journey with me.
Writing my life here, and creating this space has been a riveting experience. I feel an overwhelming sense of support and love from all of you. I am up to 40,000 visitors per month from all around the world and it has been with great enthusiasm that I prepared 150 sacred posts for you. When I post, I think of all of you. I think about the grace of love, and wonder of life, and the sheer enjoyment of evolution! This feeling is what has kept me moving forward, as well as the bliss of your sharing. I sit and wait for your comments like a child on Christmas day… I love knowing that someone is out there, witnessing my life.
I appreciate you.
This is my final post to the JujuMama Blog | Manifest Sexy.
I complete this cycle of my life and ready myself for the new year. I have done what I needed to do here. The love revolution has been televised. I am, now, moving on. Of course, the blog will remain awake and alive. There are 150 posts here – that is three full length books for your reading enjoyment ~ all written free of charge, with absolute love and profound endearment. But with this post, I end the saga – I leave a full year of my life written for all to see. Nothing sensational about it – this has been, simply, a journey in trust and faith and love that I have allowed to come through me… to you.
Today I found a post on another blog. I don’t read a lot. Most of the theories on this blog are intuited… I like to meditate and see and live a theory in order to know it. Reading is so intellectual. My ancestors or angels, or expansions of my imagination have informed my theories… But today I found this. THIS is the quintessence of what I have meant to say all this time. I do hope you enjoy it as much as I did. I offer it as a final post here on Jujumama | Manifest Sexy.
Thank you again. You can always contact me by coming here and clicking “Make An Appointment”. I am always with you on facebook and twitter and linked in and email – mail@jujumama.com. I am always your Manifestation and Sexy Love Coach… but this journey, this blog journal, this amazing ride is done. Enjoy this final post!
I’m Sorry I Love You: Simple Steps to Healing
by Dr. Joe Vitale
Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients – without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.
When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?
It didn’t make any sense. It wasn’t logical, so I dismissed the story…
Wow – yesterday I wrote a post on my blog – a very personal sharing about my 14th wedding anniversary and how I cried all morning…
Today I got an interesting comment from a reader named “Lovely”. I thought I’d use the comment to create for you the image of what a Progressive Relationship actually looks like… Remember – a Progressive Relationship is not just between lovers… we are talking friends, business partners, and family relations… any of these can be made Progressive!
So this comment hit me at the core. You have been there, right? Some “lovely” individual says something to you that bugs you – you dismiss it to save face in the moment, but then resent the person for saying that bullshit? You get upset that the person had the nerve to say it and then you just take that anger and sit on it for a while, spread it into your Liver, and your Spleen, and your digestion suffers because instead of dealing with the matter in a Progressive way, you are suppressing your anger? Or maybe not, maybe you share the story with friends in your Amen corner… and they agree – HOW DARE they say that to you! You should retaliate, giirrll. LOL! Old paradigm folly.
Here is the Progressive way to deal with these “lovely” individuals… because they are not ‘out of line’ – they are beautiful reflections of YOU. In fact, you attracted them to say just what they said… Taking things personally is old paradigm news. It’s so easy to get into the new paradigm, it will make you into a better person and it will make your liver, spleen and digestion much happier!
Here is how to do this – I encourage you to try it… and here is how I dealt with the comment from the reader…
“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.
Monday was my 14th wedding anniversary and I cried all freaking morning… I cried because I felt old – too old to do what I thought I wanted to do when I was younger, which is to grow up to be my mother. I felt, frankly, like I had a choice at this junction – to be her or to be me… I felt old because I was being just like her on the morning of my anniversary – somehow – I was thinking like, looking like and being like my mother… just all of a sudden! OMG. It was really eerie. There were, literally, two me’s living in my body that morning and it was like the real me had to choose to let her go forever…
I love Physics. In fact when I completed my degree at Howard University I thought of going back to get a Masters in Physics! I never did, but I educated myself on these very important laws… One of which is a lover’s dream law!
Here it is…
For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
YUMMY! Right? This law of physics most certainly applies in love. Physics is the study of matter. The basis of matter is energy. Energy is the wonderful thing that makes a relationship tick. This summer our tour focused on applying this gem of a law to our love lives…
Many believe that Jujumama goes hard on the women. Some believe I go hard on the guys. Lesbians think I am hetero centered and I have not heard from any gay men, so I don’t know… but I am in the center of all of that so please get it straight. I go hard on Western Cultural relationships. They do not work – for the most part… and stats prove it. A 60% divorce rate = for the most part. Yes?
Anywhoooo. I have to crack open another double standard tonight. But it is of it’s own making. Western culture is male based and so this one is sort of to be expected. Men get the short in of the stick in many matters of the heart. For instance – divorce – I see it all of the time. Women get upset at the man because he is acting out… Women, you know, they want a divorce. Right? But often, the men began going to the strip club, “cheating” (which is the silliest concept I ever heard in my life) or being violent based on other circumstances. Circumstances that involve women…
But wait people – It is still winter - this is a teaser for those who miss the smell of joy! Winter is an open door to the void and the topics are as heavy as the snow and this arctic cold – we can take it – we aren’t afraid of the dark – right? I am not afraid of the dark…travel with me in this Read the rest of this entry »
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I love this song! I love the elegance of this choreography! This is real skill, I am a dancer from way back and I know these moves are not easy. Try it for yourself, this is a fast paced, high energy, masterpiece! And Beyonce is so right, he should have put a ring on it. But why hasn’t he, why would any man be unwilling to commit to the woman he claims to love?
I believe I have an answer to that question. I think that men are actually afraid we’ll never be truly satisfied with them. Sure, we are satisfied sometimes, but at other times we flip over even the small things! Who wants to marry a ‘cussing out’ waiting to happen? Let me tell you what happened to me this morning that made me know why my husband hesitated to marry me 14 years ago…
