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Well, there is a beginning and an end to all things, right? And truly, if we think of life as a spiraling… and a movement upwards in a continuum of growth at all times, then there is no such thing as beginning and end, or past, present, and future. I speak to you with words of love. I speak to you with a voice from highest light. I want to thank you for reading my journey of a thousand miles…Thank you for taking this journey with me.
Writing my life here, and creating this space has been a riveting experience. I feel an overwhelming sense of support and love from all of you. I am up to 40,000 visitors per month from all around the world and it has been with great enthusiasm that I prepared 150 sacred posts for you. When I post, I think of all of you. I think about the grace of love, and wonder of life, and the sheer enjoyment of evolution! This feeling is what has kept me moving forward, as well as the bliss of your sharing. I sit and wait for your comments like a child on Christmas day… I love knowing that someone is out there, witnessing my life.
I appreciate you.
This is my final post to the JujuMama Blog | Manifest Sexy.
I complete this cycle of my life and ready myself for the new year. I have done what I needed to do here. The love revolution has been televised. I am, now, moving on. Of course, the blog will remain awake and alive. There are 150 posts here – that is three full length books for your reading enjoyment ~ all written free of charge, with absolute love and profound endearment. But with this post, I end the saga – I leave a full year of my life written for all to see. Nothing sensational about it – this has been, simply, a journey in trust and faith and love that I have allowed to come through me… to you.
Today I found a post on another blog. I don’t read a lot. Most of the theories on this blog are intuited… I like to meditate and see and live a theory in order to know it. Reading is so intellectual. My ancestors or angels, or expansions of my imagination have informed my theories… But today I found this. THIS is the quintessence of what I have meant to say all this time. I do hope you enjoy it as much as I did. I offer it as a final post here on Jujumama | Manifest Sexy.
Thank you again. You can always contact me by coming here and clicking “Make An Appointment”. I am always with you on facebook and twitter and linked in and email – mail@jujumama.com. I am always your Manifestation and Sexy Love Coach… but this journey, this blog journal, this amazing ride is done. Enjoy this final post!
I’m Sorry I Love You: Simple Steps to Healing
by Dr. Joe Vitale
Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients – without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.
When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?
It didn’t make any sense. It wasn’t logical, so I dismissed the story…
Wow – yesterday I wrote a post on my blog – a very personal sharing about my 14th wedding anniversary and how I cried all morning…
Today I got an interesting comment from a reader named “Lovely”. I thought I’d use the comment to create for you the image of what a Progressive Relationship actually looks like… Remember – a Progressive Relationship is not just between lovers… we are talking friends, business partners, and family relations… any of these can be made Progressive!
So this comment hit me at the core. You have been there, right? Some “lovely” individual says something to you that bugs you – you dismiss it to save face in the moment, but then resent the person for saying that bullshit? You get upset that the person had the nerve to say it and then you just take that anger and sit on it for a while, spread it into your Liver, and your Spleen, and your digestion suffers because instead of dealing with the matter in a Progressive way, you are suppressing your anger? Or maybe not, maybe you share the story with friends in your Amen corner… and they agree – HOW DARE they say that to you! You should retaliate, giirrll. LOL! Old paradigm folly.
Here is the Progressive way to deal with these “lovely” individuals… because they are not ‘out of line’ – they are beautiful reflections of YOU. In fact, you attracted them to say just what they said… Taking things personally is old paradigm news. It’s so easy to get into the new paradigm, it will make you into a better person and it will make your liver, spleen and digestion much happier!
Here is how to do this – I encourage you to try it… and here is how I dealt with the comment from the reader…
WOW! This is the first year in 14 years that I did not have birthday sex. Usually I trip about the entire thing. This year, I have evolved… My husband was out doing a tantra session after our HUGE DC Event last night. The Sexiest Seminar went long in DC and then we had an after party on U Street. Fabulous!
After the after party, there was a woman who wanted a personal tantra session. My husband reluctantly asked me if it was OK to do this on my birthday, I suppose he recounted the years I have gone completely ballistic when he ignored my conditioned behavior pattern of wanting sex specifically on my birthday. He recalls the times I tripped out when it didn’t seem to be forthcoming. He seemed fearful in the asking, but I said YES. YES, go and have a session with this lovely young lady. This is your job…
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love – now you are love.” ~Osho
OK folks, I was saving this content for my upcoming book, The Progressive Relationship™. However, there seems to be a little bit of confusion. So you know I have to clear it up. I love clarity and light… how about you?
So today I am going to define what I call A Progressive Relationship™. This is just my opinion and the basis of my work… You have to define for yourself what you think a progressive relationship is. Or maybe you’ll make it easy on yourself and agree with my assessment.
The reason for the huff is that many believe that when I say Progressive Relationship I mean an Open Relationship… That simply is not so. As I review my past 100 posts, I can see how this could have been misconstrued…
An open relationship can be progressive, and a monogamous relationship can be progressive, in fact gay or lesbian, family or work-related, partnerships or spiritual unions… Any style or format of relating can be considered progressive.
Here are my four principles on Progressive Love…
So here we go again A wonderful thing, LOVE, unevenly distributed in the course of modern history between Special Love and Universal Love. It’s time to balance the scales. So what am I talking about, right? What is the difference between Universal Love and Special Love. This article will explain all of it and even give you ideas on how to balance these energies in your life.
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The real question is, why does this matter? So what if Modern Societies are polarized in Special Love? Well, the issue with this lack of balance will become clear to you once you understand the difference between the two types of love.
So today I get this survey on facebook. A friend sent it to me. He wants to test my sexual profile or something. Great! I am going to tell you how this survey may summarize the reason 78% of women in this country (YES 78%) are non-orgasmic during intercourse with a man.
Stay open as you read. I Don’t mean to be harsh. This is a polemic…
TEST YOUR SEXUAL PROFILE QUIZ – A Facebook Application
Question One:
1. Are you comfortable with your body?
Possible Answers:
A. I love every part of my body. B. I hate my body. C. I am comfortable with my body D. I would change a few things.
OK – what does sex have to do with being comfortable with one’s body? I know, I know, you are going to tell me that body image has everything to do with good sex, psychologist said so, right? However, please examine this closely because herein lies the issue. Why would a woman not be comfortable with her body? I will tell you why. Here in this country, we have all seen it, women are attempting to measure up to a cookie cutter body image standard, which is ardently deft. Basically, women have purchased the notion that if we don’t look like a 14 year old boy, we are somehow sub-standard. We can shift this!
This has not always been the case. (This article is not simply about women body issues. It’s about male and female relations)
I love firsts. Recently at my Tantra Event in Atlanta many people were able to see their first LIVE Tantra Demonstration. Most had never seen a woman brought to full orgasm without being touched at all or through a special (non-vaginal) massage. My husband demonstrated the technique really well – so well that I too was having inner bliss as I watched – all of the women were!
What happened was we chose three audience members randomly and had each of them get into bed on the stage to be worked on by hubby. He uses a technique called NitVana but he has added some special skills to the mix as well. We call our Event Organic Bliss - soon coming to a city near you!
But firsts are really cool! I recall the first time I fell in love outside of my marriage. It happened last year this time. My husband had been – for two full years – trying to open me to these new concepts that I had immediately rejected. What? Another woman? And more, me with any man I choose – NO WAY! I am not down with that. My sister, my mother, my dad, his parents, hell, everyone in my whole life would have a fit if we were to openly have this form of relationship. My name is not Jada. And you do not have Will Smith money so forget about it!
This morning I cried… Love’s Sweet Embrace (Many-a-Yin cry… Many do not know why…) By: Kenya K Stevens | JujuMama This morning I felt in spaces we hold yearning passion | identified. This morning I glowed the Read the rest of this entry »
[Youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fNYEQYNjtg&feature=related] I believe you girl. Tracy Chapman is my very favorite musical artist of all time. I know that the time is upon us, look at the economy, relationships, environment. It is time to start all over and make a new beginning. That is my work. I am doing Read the rest of this entry »
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I love this song! I love the elegance of this choreography! This is real skill, I am a dancer from way back and I know these moves are not easy. Try it for yourself, this is a fast paced, high energy, masterpiece! And Beyonce is so right, he should have put a ring on it. But why hasn’t he, why would any man be unwilling to commit to the woman he claims to love?
I believe I have an answer to that question. I think that men are actually afraid we’ll never be truly satisfied with them. Sure, we are satisfied sometimes, but at other times we flip over even the small things! Who wants to marry a ‘cussing out’ waiting to happen? Let me tell you what happened to me this morning that made me know why my husband hesitated to marry me 14 years ago…
