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“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.
Monday was my 14th wedding anniversary and I cried all freaking morning… I cried because I felt old – too old to do what I thought I wanted to do when I was younger, which is to grow up to be my mother. I felt, frankly, like I had a choice at this junction – to be her or to be me… I felt old because I was being just like her on the morning of my anniversary – somehow – I was thinking like, looking like and being like my mother… just all of a sudden! OMG. It was really eerie. There were, literally, two me’s living in my body that morning and it was like the real me had to choose to let her go forever…
OK – so yesterday’s post got NO comments! The 142 people, maybe women, who read it were as silent as mice. LOL! All the ladies were like, ump, that is not me! I do not posses any, not one, of the ten traits. Well, maybe there were a few honest ones who sent personal emails – Thank you DIVAS! But I got far more personal mail that denoted the need for the man’s list!
OK
Why is it that as soon as I talk about what women need to shift in relationships, the women say “Well, what does the man need to do?” It seems we have a feeling of powerlessness. Feminine Energy is very powerful! Women are the center of the Home and the center of the Creative Universe! If we make changes – MEN make changes. You did see this story about the Kenyan women who went on a sex fast to end war, correct? And by no means do I suggest a sex fast, but I am saying!
Anyway, because I love ALL DIVAS, I decided to create the man’s list today.
Men – if you are having any one of the symptoms below – CALL JUJUMAMA! We can work it out so that you can have the respect you so desire!
10 clues that men need a little loving support in the relationship department:
1. You have often found yourself calling women ‘golddiggers’ and wish to have an independent woman who will not need you to secure her or take care of her financial needs.
2. You have often desired your mate to be the sexual aggressor. Your libido is not so steady and you need her to show you that she wants you a little bit more.
Dear Wonderful Men,
I am writing on behalf of all women (I hope). This letter is especially oriented for men in relationships with women, long term relationships, marriages and short term relationships for that matter! I want to talk about your desire to have more. We all want more. More love, more freedom, more fun! We honor you. We want that too. Everyone wants to feel free and happy, right?
Let me explain a few things to you that will surely get that DIVA you are working with on the right page about the relationship. She needs your love and I know you need her respect and both of you can have BOTH! Easy as pie!
The trick is simple. In this letter, I offer four ways for you to take your relationship to the next level.
I guess I’m talking to men today because of all the emails I get from men who say:
“Kenya K, I want my wife or lover to open up in the ways you have to your husband – but she won’t let me do anything like that. She would kill me if she knew I were writing you!”
I guess these men are talking about the open relationship piece. But there are a few things that must be in tact in a primary relationship before women will even consider doing anything outside the norm. Women are VERY conservative.
This is from the heart…
I have been asked by over 50 women to do this ~ Get into the bed with Steve Harvey. So I did it! I have had a wonderful time ~ thank you Stevie Baby! Steve is quite a lover! I am excited to report that after reading his book, I have decided to go through it chapter by chapter here on the blog.
I LOVE his latest piece on relationships - Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man. I feel it is perfect for women who need to understand what a man quintessentially IS. But of course, like any lover, Steve and I do not agree on everything. What is most important, however, is that we agree on the basics.
Let us begin with Chapters 1&2.
“A man’s love falls only into three categories. I call them ‘The Three P’s of Love – Profess, Provide, and Protect.’ A man many not go shopping with you to buy the new dress for your office party , a but a real man will escort you to the party and hold your hand, and proudly introduce you all around the party as his lady (Profess); he may not cuddle you and sit by the bed holding your hand while you’re sick, but a real man who loves you will make sure the prescription is filled, heat up a can of soup, and make sure everybody is in position until you are better (provide); and he many not willingly change diapers, wash the dishes, or rub your feet after a hot bath, but a real man who loves you sure will walk through a mountain and on water before he’d let someone bring any hurt or harm to you (Protect). This you can believe”
~Steve Harvey
Beautifully written Stevie Baby. So, in summary, chapters one and two are about the difference between men and women. The ways that men love and the ways that women love are just completely different. We are a different species. Men are fire and air, women are water and Earth. This, we must fully understand as we look into our relationships to find purpose. Steve and I agree here.
It is a joyful union of souls!
Read my review of Chapters One and Two!
Happy Spring Equinox To You! Happy New You! Did you walk through the doorway of the Spring Season with a little Pep in your step? Great! So, we had a really fun time the other night on our Love and Law of Attraction Call – Join The National Meet-Up Group Here. We played a series of Law of Attraction Games in celebration of the Spring Equinox! You have to hear the entire call – things got really wild!! The girls got Cool and Moist speaking life into their new realities! We discussed the fact that as women we want to be free in 2009! Free of what? Free of outmoded, antiquated, and frankly ridiculous notions of Puritanical ideas around sensuality! Now is the time! We are not going to settle for the Okey Doke any longer! Some of the ladies spoke on love, others spoke on sensual confidence. We all played the game to shift our energy for the Spring Equinox Season! Play Along ~ Have Your 45 minute dose of Bliss!
- Speak Life Into Your New Love Habits
- Shift Your man With Water
- Fawning – A Feminine Game
So today I get this survey on facebook. A friend sent it to me. He wants to test my sexual profile or something. Great! I am going to tell you how this survey may summarize the reason 78% of women in this country (YES 78%) are non-orgasmic during intercourse with a man.
Stay open as you read. I Don’t mean to be harsh. This is a polemic…
TEST YOUR SEXUAL PROFILE QUIZ – A Facebook Application
Question One:
1. Are you comfortable with your body?
Possible Answers:
A. I love every part of my body. B. I hate my body. C. I am comfortable with my body D. I would change a few things.
OK – what does sex have to do with being comfortable with one’s body? I know, I know, you are going to tell me that body image has everything to do with good sex, psychologist said so, right? However, please examine this closely because herein lies the issue. Why would a woman not be comfortable with her body? I will tell you why. Here in this country, we have all seen it, women are attempting to measure up to a cookie cutter body image standard, which is ardently deft. Basically, women have purchased the notion that if we don’t look like a 14 year old boy, we are somehow sub-standard. We can shift this!
This has not always been the case. (This article is not simply about women body issues. It’s about male and female relations)
Welcome to the Fab Five Lacing Experiment. As all of you know, I am Kenya Kay – JujuMama – Relationship Guru – Advocate for the Re|Feminine|Nation of Women – And Magical DIVA! My powers include working with woman to heal, fix, mend, or save any relationship.
I am currently looking for five fabulous women to test out my Lacing Process combined with Relationship Rescue which is a new process I have been working on for a few years.
If you are in a relationship that is flailing, failing, or being hampered by known or unknown ‘issues’, you are the perfect candidate for this experiment. I can only take FIVE women. This service will be delivered to you 100% free of charge.
I will work with you personally to heal your life from the inside out such that you attract or receive exactly what you desire in love…
Here is my hypothesis: I believe that by working with ONLY the woman in a failing relationship that we can shift the energy of ANY love scenario and effect ANY relationship to work harmoniously! The man will not be informed about this process at all! Any woman can change ANY man by making pointed changes in her own functioning, thoughts and beliefs. No words needed…
Read on for contest details…
For all it’s worth, sex is a great way to make your dreams come true. Sure, it may be a dream come true to simply engage in the magical act with your beloved. However, to harness the energy of this most transcendental experience to create just about anything you want in life is an entirely different story!
Have you ever done it? Have you utilized the brilliant white light of sexual bliss to focus into your primary objectives? Let me explain what I mean…
My Fabulous First Book – Change Your Man - is Done! Buy it NOW at AMAZON or at my website below… I am so excited! Right now you can get a free download of one full chapter from my website – Just go to www.jujumama.com Change Your Man is now for sale on the same site – just Read the rest of this entry »
