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Well, there is a beginning and an end to all things, right? And truly, if we think of life as a spiraling… and a movement upwards in a continuum of growth at all times, then there is no such thing as beginning and end, or past, present, and future. I speak to you with words of love. I speak to you with a voice from highest light. I want to thank you for reading my journey of a thousand miles…Thank you for taking this journey with me.
Writing my life here, and creating this space has been a riveting experience. I feel an overwhelming sense of support and love from all of you. I am up to 40,000 visitors per month from all around the world and it has been with great enthusiasm that I prepared 150 sacred posts for you. When I post, I think of all of you. I think about the grace of love, and wonder of life, and the sheer enjoyment of evolution! This feeling is what has kept me moving forward, as well as the bliss of your sharing. I sit and wait for your comments like a child on Christmas day… I love knowing that someone is out there, witnessing my life.
I appreciate you.
This is my final post to the JujuMama Blog | Manifest Sexy.
I complete this cycle of my life and ready myself for the new year. I have done what I needed to do here. The love revolution has been televised. I am, now, moving on. Of course, the blog will remain awake and alive. There are 150 posts here – that is three full length books for your reading enjoyment ~ all written free of charge, with absolute love and profound endearment. But with this post, I end the saga – I leave a full year of my life written for all to see. Nothing sensational about it – this has been, simply, a journey in trust and faith and love that I have allowed to come through me… to you.
Today I found a post on another blog. I don’t read a lot. Most of the theories on this blog are intuited… I like to meditate and see and live a theory in order to know it. Reading is so intellectual. My ancestors or angels, or expansions of my imagination have informed my theories… But today I found this. THIS is the quintessence of what I have meant to say all this time. I do hope you enjoy it as much as I did. I offer it as a final post here on Jujumama | Manifest Sexy.
Thank you again. You can always contact me by coming here and clicking “Make An Appointment”. I am always with you on facebook and twitter and linked in and email – mail@jujumama.com. I am always your Manifestation and Sexy Love Coach… but this journey, this blog journal, this amazing ride is done. Enjoy this final post!
I’m Sorry I Love You: Simple Steps to Healing
by Dr. Joe Vitale
Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients – without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.
When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?
It didn’t make any sense. It wasn’t logical, so I dismissed the story…
I am that… yes, ahead of my time… I realize that I identify with this ad and with Steve Jobs because I am different, I am what some of you consider to be a different thinker… but I am real, I am sincere and I am committed to my purpose: To undo the guilt and shame that women and men feel about sensual/spiritual/sexual acts of love – thus opening millions to the Aquarian Paradigms of Universal Love, Progressive Love and Boundless Power to Manifest Anything Desired!
This week I have placed some older stories to the front page… I went digging in the JujuMama crates to see how far we’ve come as ONE… Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy circa 2008!
Here is the original post | Ahead of My Time | January 1, 2009
WOW! I am so excited to share this little note that came into my inbox after the call last night. A wonderful soul, and good friend of mine wrote me a letter that I now call – the note from my own hell. Let’s talk about heaven and hell for a moment since it is, oddly enough and still, such a large paradox of modern culture…
Heaven is supposed to be a place we go when we die, if we are pure at heart – sinners, Fat Change! Heaven is supposed to have pearly gates and cool, flowing, river of joy to bath in and stuff. Good people go here to meet their maker. Sound fun! Hell, on the other hand, is the only other option. (should there not be a middle place for those who did some good and some bad…? And BTW who defines good and bad for us? LOL!) If you were “bad” this lifetime, you will go to hell when you die… OK? And rumor has it that you will burn eternally.
So, of course, I have another spin on these mythological places called heaven and hell. I don’t want to offend anyone, but certain non-Cristian, non-Islamic, non-Judaism based traditions have certain beliefs and sociologist in the West deem these beliefs “mythology”. Other traditions have other beliefs and sociologists deem these beliefs “fact”. I am a bit confused as to which as which, thus, I deem all traditional stories, religious beliefs and so forth, mythology. I simply even the playing field, right? If one culture is said to have a religion based on “mythology” and another’s are “fact”, and there are literally millions of different cultural/religious beliefs in the world, then who decides which is mythology and which is fact? So I’ll be fair -then – and say that it is all mythology. Don’t be offended, mythology is not a demeaning, condescending, dirty, word. Right? If it IS a dirty word then why are we using it to describe a cultural or religious belief anywhere in the world? You feel me? LOL!
Come on ya’ll. I don’t play… So lets move on to the note that I received from my hellish self!!!
Wow – I am so happy for Whitney Houston. And I am really excited for Bobby Brown too. What? Oh, you didn’t expect for me to say that, huh? Well, I said it. I love both of these amazing human beings who agreed to show us all what it looks like to live in a relationship with:
A. No relationships training
B. No relationships support
C. Without consciously taking 100% responsibility for manifesting creation.
Oh yes. Bobby and Whitney are but models to demonstrate to America and Americans what is going on in each of our relationships to some degree or another. They agreed to do it, to show us, to be the model for us to look at, judge, decipher, pontificate over and thus become closer to discovery of our own selves. Kudos Blissed couple! You even did a great little reality show for us to get the inside scoop…
Can you guys believe this? In my ‘Lovely’ post I talked about the important role of ancient cultures in the shaping of modern ‘new age’ thought. Recall that I had a pet peeve about it… Well no sooner do I give up that annoyance and decide to submit, than I Read the rest of this entry »
WOW! This is the first year in 14 years that I did not have birthday sex. Usually I trip about the entire thing. This year, I have evolved… My husband was out doing a tantra session after our HUGE DC Event last night. The Sexiest Seminar went long in DC and then we had an after party on U Street. Fabulous!
After the after party, there was a woman who wanted a personal tantra session. My husband reluctantly asked me if it was OK to do this on my birthday, I suppose he recounted the years I have gone completely ballistic when he ignored my conditioned behavior pattern of wanting sex specifically on my birthday. He recalls the times I tripped out when it didn’t seem to be forthcoming. He seemed fearful in the asking, but I said YES. YES, go and have a session with this lovely young lady. This is your job…
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love – now you are love.” ~Osho
OK folks, I was saving this content for my upcoming book, The Progressive Relationship™. However, there seems to be a little bit of confusion. So you know I have to clear it up. I love clarity and light… how about you?
So today I am going to define what I call A Progressive Relationship™. This is just my opinion and the basis of my work… You have to define for yourself what you think a progressive relationship is. Or maybe you’ll make it easy on yourself and agree with my assessment.
The reason for the huff is that many believe that when I say Progressive Relationship I mean an Open Relationship… That simply is not so. As I review my past 100 posts, I can see how this could have been misconstrued…
An open relationship can be progressive, and a monogamous relationship can be progressive, in fact gay or lesbian, family or work-related, partnerships or spiritual unions… Any style or format of relating can be considered progressive.
Here are my four principles on Progressive Love…
Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…
Kenya
I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never had sex. The opportunity of sex has always been there, but there was no one I ever felt it would be “right” with. I thought I would be in a relationship with a man, fall in love, etc. then have sex with him. But for the first time I’ve met a man whom I have no desire to be in a relationship with but I am extremely attracted to him mentally, physically and emotionally. I know that we attract what we are but I can’t seem to figure this one out. I admit that I am nervous about being alone with him because there is no doubt that I would give myself to him. I know I would not regret it because I don’t regret any decisions that I make, instead I simply learn from them. I don’t agree with everything you say but I am open to all that you say. With that being said I would appreciate some insight on this.
Thank you,
Anonymous
I have replied below… Thanks!
“Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.” – Osho
Did I tell you guys what happened last Thursday? No? Oh for shame. This is a good one, especially for those of you considering the life of Progressive Love. This is a situation that marks the writes of passage of an individual moving away from the Western, cookie cutter paradigm into a new world order…
So I had a client in town from Miami. I saw him on the 45th floor of the Westin in downtown Atlanta. Hawt! I was there to work with he and his estranged wife. The work had gone well, I had arrived at 5:00 PM and left at 3:00 AM. Lots of healing work happening and lots of awakening!
My husband had a Tantra client that evening – a young lady expecting a child. She had a great time unraveling some of the fears she has in relating to her husband and other men. Fabulous! Right?
So I come home at about 3:30 AM only to find the door bolted shut from the inside. I turned my key in the keyhole only to find that I was locked out. Figuring my husband was sleeping, I went ahead and tried the sliding glass door. Peeking in from the outside, I saw two figures scrambling to get dressed? OMG? So I came back to the front door and was this time greeted by my husband…
So ladies. Let’s talk. Whats all this I hear about low libido women? When I walk on the streets certain people know who I am and maybe they read my blog. They tell me that I am a brave woman for having an open relationship. But they ask me one question or make one simple statement: “I don’t like sex that much. I don’t even feel like having sex with the one man I have”. OK?
What’s up with that?
For some, this is a statement of validation. I am female, I don’t like sex. A credo of sorts that is simply old news in my book. For others this is a statement of defeat. I just don’t get into that… But for me – I am hearing something deeper in the voices of women everywhere who have come to me with this situation – low libido…
