Posts Tagged ‘relax’

We cannot serve our purpose when anchored to a prevailing mindset that does not serve our purpose ~ J.S. Perkins
Wow – so last night was interesting. I had a couple to counsel whom are on the verge of divorce. I love these two human beings, they are both so wonderful. However, like most of us, they are unwilling to go beyond their comfort zones. She is unwilling to even consider a reconciliation because she is so angry and hurt. I do not know what he is unwilling to do. So far he has been willing to do just about anything I suggest, maybe his unwillingness was in the relationship – he was passive aggressive and had done loads of covert things to her that she is now fed up with… She called it manipulation.
And it ain’t just them, it’s so many couples going through similar issues. Years and years of built up emotion, unresolved and unsettled stuff just looming in the minds of both partners… I think it is imperative that we get these things out on the table. I do it through a process I call the Three Way Mirror. Now to just get her to come along and participate…
So we talk alot about feminine energy here at Jujumama | Manifest Sexy. And why not? There is so much power in a woman’s yielding, sensual, receptive and sweet energy! Why not use it a little bit more, and hold back on the control bit? Can we open a school for that? It is not always so simple, right? Read the rest of this entry »
