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Wow!I have had a busy two weeks. Do you like this sample of our latest photos? We’re moving to NYC! So we’ve been in ATL for two weeks to close out our living there and get packed for the Big Apple.While there, I had a few awesome experiences. I thought they were valuable and you may enjoy peeping in… giggle.
My fun began the second day that I was back to Atlanta.We were staying at a hotel in Buckhead and there was this cool little Diner nearby.A friend on Twitter told me that my Tweets were featured in RedBook Magazine!So I rushed on over the CVS to pick it up!With book in hand I went to the little Diner to eat and read!
When I walked in there was this amazingly beautiful man standing right there, right in the doorway. He seemed to be the host of the restaurant, but later I found that he was the owner – or at least his parents owned the place…
I have to admit it… I have been receiving words from the Universe about my eggs. This is for you ladies, sisters, DIVAS and friends. And for the guys, this should explain a lot! Friday the heavens opened up and told me about myself. Yeah! I had an attitude with my husband. I mean a HUGE attitude and I wasn’t used to it. I rarely if ever have this type of break down anymore, and I rarely take it out on him, but Friday I did. Why did I do it? What is wrong with me? Not this again, oh no! Then, in a flash of light, and with the rumble of the sky above, I heard a voice…
Kenya, you are not angry, your eggs are angry!!! What? My eggs are angry? OK…. tell me more…
Poem By : Dehejia Maat of Washington DC
NERVE
Holding me
Inhaling your scent
yum…
Article By Contributing Writer: Queen Pandora
Being intimate with my King last night really brought some revelations to me…
So yesterday I had a gut wrenching experience on Twitter. This boy was talking to me. He seemed drunk or something, maybe high. He and I always talk; he is a really cool cat from Chicago. He wants to know if the tour will stop in Chi town. I think it will! We’re looking at Monday August 3!
Either way, this boy, in his drunken stupor, twitted me a deeply eye-opening message. After addressing him as King, which is the way I address most men I come into contact with, he wrote me back addressing me as Queen FREAK!
QUEEN FREAK! WTF?
This pounded me to the floor of my soul. I felt the rip inside of me and immediately I was back in high school where FREAK was the worst word in the world. Ladies, do you feel me? I hated THAT word! I hated it with a passion. I probably hated it most when I was the subject of the conversation in which it was used which seemed unavoidable in my school. Every girl was at one point or another considered a FREAK. This Twitter boy was offering me the opportunity to grow past my teenage self! A real blissing in disguise…
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love – now you are love.” ~Osho
OK folks, I was saving this content for my upcoming book, The Progressive Relationship™. However, there seems to be a little bit of confusion. So you know I have to clear it up. I love clarity and light… how about you?
So today I am going to define what I call A Progressive Relationship™. This is just my opinion and the basis of my work… You have to define for yourself what you think a progressive relationship is. Or maybe you’ll make it easy on yourself and agree with my assessment.
The reason for the huff is that many believe that when I say Progressive Relationship I mean an Open Relationship… That simply is not so. As I review my past 100 posts, I can see how this could have been misconstrued…
An open relationship can be progressive, and a monogamous relationship can be progressive, in fact gay or lesbian, family or work-related, partnerships or spiritual unions… Any style or format of relating can be considered progressive.
Here are my four principles on Progressive Love…
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Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…
Kenya
I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never had sex. The opportunity of sex has always been there, but there was no one I ever felt it would be “right” with. I thought I would be in a relationship with a man, fall in love, etc. then have sex with him. But for the first time I’ve met a man whom I have no desire to be in a relationship with but I am extremely attracted to him mentally, physically and emotionally. I know that we attract what we are but I can’t seem to figure this one out. I admit that I am nervous about being alone with him because there is no doubt that I would give myself to him. I know I would not regret it because I don’t regret any decisions that I make, instead I simply learn from them. I don’t agree with everything you say but I am open to all that you say. With that being said I would appreciate some insight on this.
Thank you,
Anonymous
I have replied below… Thanks!
“Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.” – Osho
Did I tell you guys what happened last Thursday? No? Oh for shame. This is a good one, especially for those of you considering the life of Progressive Love. This is a situation that marks the writes of passage of an individual moving away from the Western, cookie cutter paradigm into a new world order…
So I had a client in town from Miami. I saw him on the 45th floor of the Westin in downtown Atlanta. Hawt! I was there to work with he and his estranged wife. The work had gone well, I had arrived at 5:00 PM and left at 3:00 AM. Lots of healing work happening and lots of awakening!
My husband had a Tantra client that evening – a young lady expecting a child. She had a great time unraveling some of the fears she has in relating to her husband and other men. Fabulous! Right?
So I come home at about 3:30 AM only to find the door bolted shut from the inside. I turned my key in the keyhole only to find that I was locked out. Figuring my husband was sleeping, I went ahead and tried the sliding glass door. Peeking in from the outside, I saw two figures scrambling to get dressed? OMG? So I came back to the front door and was this time greeted by my husband…
So ladies. Let’s talk. Whats all this I hear about low libido women? When I walk on the streets certain people know who I am and maybe they read my blog. They tell me that I am a brave woman for having an open relationship. But they ask me one question or make one simple statement: “I don’t like sex that much. I don’t even feel like having sex with the one man I have”. OK?
What’s up with that?
For some, this is a statement of validation. I am female, I don’t like sex. A credo of sorts that is simply old news in my book. For others this is a statement of defeat. I just don’t get into that… But for me – I am hearing something deeper in the voices of women everywhere who have come to me with this situation – low libido…
