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It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier
This is the secret key to love…
Ladies, I have heard some women complaining that their man is not willing to give up enough of the good stuff. I even speak with women in their 20’s and 30’s stating that their boyfriends are unable to perform at various moments in time.
OK?
Well please note – there is an easy cure for this. I spoke about it in detail in my article on Viagra. However, here is the short version. If you want your man to be hard, you have to be soft.
It is really just that simple. You cannot run about all day bossing him around, complaining, being tough, independent, irritated and even hurtful with your words or actions and then expect for him to make love with you, or WANT to make love with you. Sure, you can expect him to do so, but if he is holding on to inner rage about your arrogant and disrepectful behavior, he will not be able to perform. Over time this looks like erectile dysfunction, but guess what? He only has it with you! LOL! So it ain’t real!
Girl, I have been there and done that in my eleven years of monogamy (I’ve been married since I was HOT and 21!!!).
It is not fun, and it is hard to accept that the cause of his “issue” may be some behavior on your part. But once you take ownership for your entire life, including the way that others treat you, you will become empowered to change anything about any relationship with a mild shift in your own behaviors! Sound too hard? Well try living with an erectile dysfunctional man for a few more years and then come back to this post and try following this advise.
I think you will then kiss me!
Try this trick to get some good stuff this weekend:

OK – So what is the deal people? Can someone help me understand when we are going to get rid of this dated concept of manipulation. I mean, this one went out with corsets (well, corsets are sexy, except when they break your ribs). Let’s see, this one went out with ceramic shingles (well, those are sort of elegant). OK fine, this one went out with the concept of BLAME. Nothing pretty about blaming someone else for any part of your life right?
Same senselessness in choosing to believe in another dying paradigm – Manipulation. SO we’re gonna look at this because we have to. Men and women alike are afraid to be called a manipulator. Yet, we want to master the Law of Attraction, we want to become Creators of our lives. But, the two concepts do not fit together ~ manifestation and manipulation. Blame is the essence of manipulation. If someone is “manipulating” another or (heaven forbid) manipulating you, then you do not believe that you create your life. You in fact believe in the concept of blame… right?
No one is doing anything to us. We are creating everything for ourselves. AND, when we ladies put on that feminine energy and shine it into the world, we are not ‘doing anything’ to anyone, we are simply using our natural talent to manifest our desires quickly and easily! Feminine magnetism is MAGICAL!
How can we think that working magic in our lives to create what we desire can be a form of manipulation? Come now.
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I woke up this morning with a profound feeling in the pit of my stomach. I AM AN ADVOCATE! What do I advocate for? I am a premier spokeswoman for the AMERICAN COUPLE – apparently an endangered species…
Yes, that is just it! We are an endangered species. I had a great opportunity to look into my own relationship this weekend to find the areas causing the most stress. I found that I just want more – I always want more! And there is nothing on Earth that says I should not achieve more! The only issue is the direction in which I point my focus for more. Should I point that tension toward my husband, toward myself or toward the Universe which is the owner of all the MORE I could ever desire? The answer seems obvious when we are not faced with a challenge, right?
When I think of leaving my husband, which is often, and has been often for the past 14 years (oh yeah folks, I use LEAVING as my first option in a bind as well – I told you about how I used to throw my wedding ring at him – well, I was in my 20’s then…) I think about how foolish it would be for me to make such an obtuse movement away from the more I desire and deserve. In any other field of thought such as entrepreneurship and college, leaving means giving up on life, giving up on the power of self, giving up hope; essentially giving up on my desire to achieve more! Don’t debate or hate…just keep reading (comment later).
Damn! Life is really on my a$$ right now. I am up there teaching, I also practice what I am preaching! LOL! I can’t say that it’s hard, it is no more difficult than standing on stage with your pants down. I have no problem exposing my arse if you don’t mind taking a minute to stare. I do not play around with this thing called life. Everything I preach to you, I do!
I have to!
Today I realized that my husband is a HUGE mirror – once again, here it is! Tired of hearing about the mirror? Oh, I’m sorry. Scroll down for more suitable literature. Here’s the story – So you know he has found his passion in learning, practicing and working himself into an open relationship with me. Yes, just like Will and Jada, but he said Will is gay. (I don’t think so.)
I resent it and I resent him…blah blah blah. Life is ALWAYS fair. What he does to me is my reflection of me back to ME! I know I have to find the mirror, so here goes, my Water Bending goes public. Journey with me to the core of my polyamory issue…
