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“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.
Monday was my 14th wedding anniversary and I cried all freaking morning… I cried because I felt old – too old to do what I thought I wanted to do when I was younger, which is to grow up to be my mother. I felt, frankly, like I had a choice at this junction – to be her or to be me… I felt old because I was being just like her on the morning of my anniversary – somehow – I was thinking like, looking like and being like my mother… just all of a sudden! OMG. It was really eerie. There were, literally, two me’s living in my body that morning and it was like the real me had to choose to let her go forever…
My husband and I have been having this debate for a few days. It isn’t really a debate so much as a discussion about life and love… My husband has cared for me for over 13 years, meaning I have never had a “real” job; he bank rolled me as I built JujuMama LLC and wrote my first book, Change Your Man. I think that he feels proud of his accomplishments. I don’t get the impression that he feels used by me… You know? There has been a synergistic partnership… and it feels luscious. I think any man feels good to care for a woman the way he has for me.
So, I have a new friend who is very well “connected”. My husband feels as though this person should be giving more steadily to me. My old self shouts NOOOOO – I can’t expect more - I might be considered a Gold Digger! OMG! LOL! Funny that the man in my life, my husband, is like telling me that my boyfriend needs to do more to support me…
What do you think people? When a woman desires the partnership of a man – financially, especially – is she a gold Digger? What if she seeks only men who have the means to help her with her endeavors? Does that make her a gold digger?
OK – So what is the deal people? Can someone help me understand when we are going to get rid of this dated concept of manipulation. I mean, this one went out with corsets (well, corsets are sexy, except when they break your ribs). Let’s see, this one went out with ceramic shingles (well, those are sort of elegant). OK fine, this one went out with the concept of BLAME. Nothing pretty about blaming someone else for any part of your life right?
Same senselessness in choosing to believe in another dying paradigm – Manipulation. SO we’re gonna look at this because we have to. Men and women alike are afraid to be called a manipulator. Yet, we want to master the Law of Attraction, we want to become Creators of our lives. But, the two concepts do not fit together ~ manifestation and manipulation. Blame is the essence of manipulation. If someone is “manipulating” another or (heaven forbid) manipulating you, then you do not believe that you create your life. You in fact believe in the concept of blame… right?
No one is doing anything to us. We are creating everything for ourselves. AND, when we ladies put on that feminine energy and shine it into the world, we are not ‘doing anything’ to anyone, we are simply using our natural talent to manifest our desires quickly and easily! Feminine magnetism is MAGICAL!
How can we think that working magic in our lives to create what we desire can be a form of manipulation? Come now.
So here we go again A wonderful thing, LOVE, unevenly distributed in the course of modern history between Special Love and Universal Love. It’s time to balance the scales. So what am I talking about, right? What is the difference between Universal Love and Special Love. This article will explain all of it and even give you ideas on how to balance these energies in your life.
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The real question is, why does this matter? So what if Modern Societies are polarized in Special Love? Well, the issue with this lack of balance will become clear to you once you understand the difference between the two types of love.
Watch this video to understand this expose. OK. You saw that? Good. Mehna Mehna does indeed have a meaning. My interpretation may be shocking…
I LOVE Facebook! Yesterday I posted “I Want TO Own Him” on my Facebook page. I received a massive response to my writing. Four rather stimulating comments jumped out at me. Here are my thoughts on each boldly eloquent comment! I am in love with the young man who posted these! Amazing!
Read the post “I Want To Own Him” first to make sense of this post…These comments are in response to the idea that maybe human beings are not monogamous, but have been poured into an unnatural relationship mold which causes illness and stagnation. If you enjoyed the article about my wanting to Own my husband, you’ll love the comments below.
article by Kenya Stevens
Vulnerable Defined
1 : capable of being physically or emotionally wounded
2 : open to attack or damage : assailable <vulnerable to criticism
3 : liable to increased penalties but entitled to increased bonuses after winning a game in contract bridge
So Ladies…does this definition of vulnerable make you want to open up to a man and let your guard down? Oh yes! Let’s just get serious – the concept of being vulnerable just doesn’t have a positive connotation in Western culture? Now does it?
