Posts Tagged ‘Tantra’

Wow!I have had a busy two weeks. Do you like this sample of our latest photos? We’re moving to NYC! So we’ve been in ATL for two weeks to close out our living there and get packed for the Big Apple.While there, I had a few awesome experiences. I thought they were valuable and you may enjoy peeping in… giggle.
My fun began the second day that I was back to Atlanta.We were staying at a hotel in Buckhead and there was this cool little Diner nearby.A friend on Twitter told me that my Tweets were featured in RedBook Magazine!So I rushed on over the CVS to pick it up!With book in hand I went to the little Diner to eat and read!
When I walked in there was this amazingly beautiful man standing right there, right in the doorway. He seemed to be the host of the restaurant, but later I found that he was the owner – or at least his parents owned the place…

Poem By : Dehejia Maat of Washington DC
NERVE
Holding me
Inhaling your scent
yum…
Can you guys believe this? In my ‘Lovely’ post I talked about the important role of ancient cultures in the shaping of modern ‘new age’ thought. Recall that I had a pet peeve about it… Well no sooner do I give up that annoyance and decide to submit, than I Read the rest of this entry »
“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.

Monday was my 14th wedding anniversary and I cried all freaking morning… I cried because I felt old – too old to do what I thought I wanted to do when I was younger, which is to grow up to be my mother. I felt, frankly, like I had a choice at this junction – to be her or to be me… I felt old because I was being just like her on the morning of my anniversary – somehow – I was thinking like, looking like and being like my mother… just all of a sudden! OMG. It was really eerie. There were, literally, two me’s living in my body that morning and it was like the real me had to choose to let her go forever…
Thought It Was Me by Bell Biv Devoe – 1985
I was listening to this song the other day and thinking what an interesting subject it makes. Why do men feel that if a woman is warm, fuzzy, blissful, orgasmic, and happy with him that she should not be this way with ALL men, ALL people, in fact!? Why would a man want a woman who is happy with him and then indifferent to the rest of the world? Can she be happy, blissful and free in general? Or just with him?…
Kick Off with us in Miami. JujuMama and crew hit Florida’s Southern Tip Friday July 10, 2009! Join us for the BlissShop that will change your love life forever! Enjoy the luscious ambiance of UVA 69 – Couches, pillows, cocktails and Tantra! Let’s talk relationships baby! Read the rest of this entry »
“Once you have started seeing the beauty of life, ugliness starts disappearing. If you start looking at life with joy, sadness starts disappearing. You cannot have heaven and hell together, you can have only one. It is your choice.” – Osho

Did I tell you guys what happened last Thursday? No? Oh for shame. This is a good one, especially for those of you considering the life of Progressive Love. This is a situation that marks the writes of passage of an individual moving away from the Western, cookie cutter paradigm into a new world order…
So I had a client in town from Miami. I saw him on the 45th floor of the Westin in downtown Atlanta. Hawt! I was there to work with he and his estranged wife. The work had gone well, I had arrived at 5:00 PM and left at 3:00 AM. Lots of healing work happening and lots of awakening!
My husband had a Tantra client that evening – a young lady expecting a child. She had a great time unraveling some of the fears she has in relating to her husband and other men. Fabulous! Right?
So I come home at about 3:30 AM only to find the door bolted shut from the inside. I turned my key in the keyhole only to find that I was locked out. Figuring my husband was sleeping, I went ahead and tried the sliding glass door. Peeking in from the outside, I saw two figures scrambling to get dressed? OMG? So I came back to the front door and was this time greeted by my husband…

So ladies. Let’s talk. Whats all this I hear about low libido women? When I walk on the streets certain people know who I am and maybe they read my blog. They tell me that I am a brave woman for having an open relationship. But they ask me one question or make one simple statement: “I don’t like sex that much. I don’t even feel like having sex with the one man I have”. OK?
What’s up with that?
For some, this is a statement of validation. I am female, I don’t like sex. A credo of sorts that is simply old news in my book. For others this is a statement of defeat. I just don’t get into that… But for me – I am hearing something deeper in the voices of women everywhere who have come to me with this situation – low libido…

“I found god in myself and loved her. I loved her fiercely.”— Ntosake Shanghe
Ummmm. Yes! I am outside at Caribou, it’s 1:00 AM and I am loving Atlanta! I have a few juicy secrets for you… I have a few new lovers and I am totally blissed about it. LOL! I have an itch to have you know me. I want you to know me so that you might know yourself even better… That is why I blog.
So since I last wrote about my personal life I was there on the swing with my hubby at Peidmont Park wondering why I was so freaking angry. Since that serious growth point, I have been more myself. I have expanded my feminine horizons and enjoyed sweet love taking me higher, onward, to the blissful heights we were all meant to soar…
So I have a lover, right, his name is not what I want to share. His energy is. His energy is so strong that the first time we shared love, I could not move. I mean, I was literally paralyzed by his magical spirit. His light touched the deepness parts of my outer womb. I felt as though I would faint, or gag, or be lifted into a bliss I had never before known, what would that be like? I could not take a risk, would I lose my mind with joy? Many women have issues allowing pleasure when it comes… It took me four hours to open to it… I had to move slowly not to pass out, my mind fiddled with our connection, between the voice and breath… where had I known him before… I had to have known this awesome soul once before…
Wow - I was just feeling badly today, getting tired, thinking that I am a visionary, a misunderstood one at that, and that my ideas are just ahead of their time… I mean my entire purpose seems to run contrary to the current scheme of relating Read the rest of this entry »
