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I am that… yes, ahead of my time… I realize that I identify with this ad and with Steve Jobs because I am different, I am what some of you consider to be a different thinker… but I am real, I am sincere and I am committed to my purpose: To undo the guilt and shame that women and men feel about sensual/spiritual/sexual acts of love – thus opening millions to the Aquarian Paradigms of Universal Love, Progressive Love and Boundless Power to Manifest Anything Desired!
This week I have placed some older stories to the front page… I went digging in the JujuMama crates to see how far we’ve come as ONE… Thank you for reading JujuMama | Manifest Sexy circa 2008!
Here is the original post | Ahead of My Time | January 1, 2009
Wow!I have had a busy two weeks. Do you like this sample of our latest photos? We’re moving to NYC! So we’ve been in ATL for two weeks to close out our living there and get packed for the Big Apple.While there, I had a few awesome experiences. I thought they were valuable and you may enjoy peeping in… giggle.
My fun began the second day that I was back to Atlanta.We were staying at a hotel in Buckhead and there was this cool little Diner nearby.A friend on Twitter told me that my Tweets were featured in RedBook Magazine!So I rushed on over the CVS to pick it up!With book in hand I went to the little Diner to eat and read!
When I walked in there was this amazingly beautiful man standing right there, right in the doorway. He seemed to be the host of the restaurant, but later I found that he was the owner – or at least his parents owned the place…
I have to admit it… I have been receiving words from the Universe about my eggs. This is for you ladies, sisters, DIVAS and friends. And for the guys, this should explain a lot! Friday the heavens opened up and told me about myself. Yeah! I had an attitude with my husband. I mean a HUGE attitude and I wasn’t used to it. I rarely if ever have this type of break down anymore, and I rarely take it out on him, but Friday I did. Why did I do it? What is wrong with me? Not this again, oh no! Then, in a flash of light, and with the rumble of the sky above, I heard a voice…
Kenya, you are not angry, your eggs are angry!!! What? My eggs are angry? OK…. tell me more…
Wow! Last night I had a very powerful experience. The background is simple. I have a Universal Love in NYC and I miss him. When I was there this summer for the tour, which he helped me coordinate, we did not have a chance to “get together”. He is very busy with things in the city, and I am always busy with things for Jujumama. But that isn’t why we did not “hook up”. In fact, I was walking on Broadway and 28th looking for a dress for the event when he found me! Apparently he had called my husband to find out where I was. He came to the hotel, to surprise me, but I was on the avenue shopping when we literally ran into each other…
He helped me. As usual, this Universal Love is always helping me. He hooks me up with the right people, he cares about my career and about my happiness. He is so YANG n YUMMY! So when I exasperatingly expressed that I needed a dress and to have my hair done, he quickly showed me the places in the Jungle of the NYC streets where I could get everything I needed in a pinch! And then it was done! After my hair do, he came back to escort me to the event in his luscious SUV with black tinted windows and smooth rims to match. I was a lil late, but that’s OK. giggle…
Poem By : Dehejia Maat of Washington DC
NERVE
Holding me
Inhaling your scent
yum…
Man oh Man! I am so excited! I just realized that I (Yes, lil ole ME!!) want a boyfriend in every city I visit! You guys know I am on tour – LOL! I desire a luscious man, at least one, in everywhere I travel… And why not? I have NYC and ATL covered, and Charlotte was good, DC was aight… but you know… That’s only four of the twelve cities I visited this summer. I mean, I know I just accepted this new “open” life of mine, and you know I left the world of monogamy kicking and screaming. But giiirrrlll, once you go ‘Universal Love’ – you never come back to the personal ownership drama. Sorry folks to burst the Puritan bubble. I have to just tell you the truth! It’s good to know that I can explore my sacred sensuality and divine ONENESS with ALL in new ways and with luscious men all the while…
Thought It Was Me by Bell Biv Devoe – 1985
I was listening to this song the other day and thinking what an interesting subject it makes. Why do men feel that if a woman is warm, fuzzy, blissful, orgasmic, and happy with him that she should not be this way with ALL men, ALL people, in fact!? Why would a man want a woman who is happy with him and then indifferent to the rest of the world? Can she be happy, blissful and free in general? Or just with him?…
WOW! This is the first year in 14 years that I did not have birthday sex. Usually I trip about the entire thing. This year, I have evolved… My husband was out doing a tantra session after our HUGE DC Event last night. The Sexiest Seminar went long in DC and then we had an after party on U Street. Fabulous!
After the after party, there was a woman who wanted a personal tantra session. My husband reluctantly asked me if it was OK to do this on my birthday, I suppose he recounted the years I have gone completely ballistic when he ignored my conditioned behavior pattern of wanting sex specifically on my birthday. He recalls the times I tripped out when it didn’t seem to be forthcoming. He seemed fearful in the asking, but I said YES. YES, go and have a session with this lovely young lady. This is your job…
Here is the note I got today from a young lady concerned about virginity…
Kenya
I’ve always been taught to “wait” for the “right” person to have sex with and I do believe in monogamy. Lately I’ve been reading your blog and I know you talk about attraction and opportunity. I’m 19 years old and have never had sex. The opportunity of sex has always been there, but there was no one I ever felt it would be “right” with. I thought I would be in a relationship with a man, fall in love, etc. then have sex with him. But for the first time I’ve met a man whom I have no desire to be in a relationship with but I am extremely attracted to him mentally, physically and emotionally. I know that we attract what we are but I can’t seem to figure this one out. I admit that I am nervous about being alone with him because there is no doubt that I would give myself to him. I know I would not regret it because I don’t regret any decisions that I make, instead I simply learn from them. I don’t agree with everything you say but I am open to all that you say. With that being said I would appreciate some insight on this.
Thank you,
Anonymous
I have replied below… Thanks!
It’s so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to. ~Annie Gottlier
This is the secret key to love…
Ladies, I have heard some women complaining that their man is not willing to give up enough of the good stuff. I even speak with women in their 20’s and 30’s stating that their boyfriends are unable to perform at various moments in time.
OK?
Well please note – there is an easy cure for this. I spoke about it in detail in my article on Viagra. However, here is the short version. If you want your man to be hard, you have to be soft.
It is really just that simple. You cannot run about all day bossing him around, complaining, being tough, independent, irritated and even hurtful with your words or actions and then expect for him to make love with you, or WANT to make love with you. Sure, you can expect him to do so, but if he is holding on to inner rage about your arrogant and disrepectful behavior, he will not be able to perform. Over time this looks like erectile dysfunction, but guess what? He only has it with you! LOL! So it ain’t real!
Girl, I have been there and done that in my eleven years of monogamy (I’ve been married since I was HOT and 21!!!).
It is not fun, and it is hard to accept that the cause of his “issue” may be some behavior on your part. But once you take ownership for your entire life, including the way that others treat you, you will become empowered to change anything about any relationship with a mild shift in your own behaviors! Sound too hard? Well try living with an erectile dysfunctional man for a few more years and then come back to this post and try following this advise.
I think you will then kiss me!
Try this trick to get some good stuff this weekend:
